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		<title>By: Get Back With Your Ex &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Finding Out How To Save A Relationship</title>
		<link>http://positivesharing.com/2006/08/a-devious-trick-to-handle-chronic-complainers/comment-page-2/#comment-245956</link>
		<dc:creator>Get Back With Your Ex &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Finding Out How To Save A Relationship</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 02:25:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] How to handle chronic complainers [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Stop Complaining! A Conversation Hostage Plea</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stop Complaining! A Conversation Hostage Plea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 09:02:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Many will consequently discover a bond over the things they complain with one another about because the act itself puts everyone on the same mental level regardless of differences or similarities in personality. Complaining, you could argue, is universal. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Many will consequently discover a bond over the things they complain with one another about because the act itself puts everyone on the same mental level regardless of differences or similarities in personality. Complaining, you could argue, is universal. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: siteler mutfak dolabi</title>
		<link>http://positivesharing.com/2006/08/a-devious-trick-to-handle-chronic-complainers/comment-page-2/#comment-245192</link>
		<dc:creator>siteler mutfak dolabi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Dec 2009 11:07:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>a peace/piece of advice : u can’t tell people wat 2 do or say..juz mind ur own business/scratch ur own itch..if people r complainers, u cant do anything about it, live w/ it..handle it well..pull up ur own horn, pull out ur own tail..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>a peace/piece of advice : u can’t tell people wat 2 do or say..juz mind ur own business/scratch ur own itch..if people r complainers, u cant do anything about it, live w/ it..handle it well..pull up ur own horn, pull out ur own tail..</p>
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		<title>By: Ryan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ryan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Dec 2009 18:02:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow!  That makes perfect sense!  I have had many of those in my experience and I&#039;ll tell you what, they can weigh you down if you let them!  Great article, Great Job!  &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.powerofapositivemind.com&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Power of a Positive Mind&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow!  That makes perfect sense!  I have had many of those in my experience and I&#8217;ll tell you what, they can weigh you down if you let them!  Great article, Great Job!  <a href="http://www.powerofapositivemind.com" rel="nofollow">The Power of a Positive Mind</a></p>
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		<title>By: How to Handle Chronic Complainers &#171; Sky Writer</title>
		<link>http://positivesharing.com/2006/08/a-devious-trick-to-handle-chronic-complainers/comment-page-2/#comment-244482</link>
		<dc:creator>How to Handle Chronic Complainers &#171; Sky Writer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 11:53:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] http://www.wikihow.com/Handle-Chronic-Complainers  Original source of article, Alex Kjerulf, How to Handle Chronic Complainers. reprinted with permission of WikiHow. See his website, Positive Sharing here: Happy Hour is 9 [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] <a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Handle-Chronic-Complainers " rel="nofollow">http://www.wikihow.com/Handle-Chronic-Complainers </a> Original source of article, Alex Kjerulf, How to Handle Chronic Complainers. reprinted with permission of WikiHow. See his website, Positive Sharing here: Happy Hour is 9 [...]</p>
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		<title>By: dave</title>
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		<dc:creator>dave</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 20:35:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>mike is the only one of you that gets it.
just a soft stroke makes ya feel better 
it&#039;s human nature to want that.
but as you can see from the comments
most people are self involved assholes
(review comments here) and can&#039;t make themselves
help anybody unless it serves them. 

mike, you deserve the sex....  
now the rest of you off to bed
and just keep stroking youself</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>mike is the only one of you that gets it.<br />
just a soft stroke makes ya feel better<br />
it&#8217;s human nature to want that.<br />
but as you can see from the comments<br />
most people are self involved assholes<br />
(review comments here) and can&#8217;t make themselves<br />
help anybody unless it serves them. </p>
<p>mike, you deserve the sex&#8230;.<br />
now the rest of you off to bed<br />
and just keep stroking youself</p>
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		<title>By: transitvans</title>
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		<dc:creator>transitvans</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2009 14:20:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>personally i think quite a good response is to talk about something completely unrelated to the complaints, something which you are both looking forward to or have done recently that was fun</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>personally i think quite a good response is to talk about something completely unrelated to the complaints, something which you are both looking forward to or have done recently that was fun</p>
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		<title>By: Nyomi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nyomi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 10:21:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good thinking. Yes, I think saying “Weeeeell, it’s not THAT bad!” could certainly work at times.

I think most people want a bit of empathy when they complain, and if we do that sincerely and kindly then nicely change the conversation when we&#039;re sick of their winging, that might help too. If they continue to winge, walk off or talk to someone else instead.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good thinking. Yes, I think saying “Weeeeell, it’s not THAT bad!” could certainly work at times.</p>
<p>I think most people want a bit of empathy when they complain, and if we do that sincerely and kindly then nicely change the conversation when we&#8217;re sick of their winging, that might help too. If they continue to winge, walk off or talk to someone else instead.</p>
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		<title>By: chiefscribe</title>
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		<dc:creator>chiefscribe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2009 03:16:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Donna,

You comment has to be a joke, right?  A woman complaining about a man comoplaining?? Please give me a break.  I am single &amp; happy with that.  I walk arond cities 7 witness first hand men in company with nagging, moaning, compaining, bitching females.  i feel like saying to them there is life after divorce away from whingers like the thing that you are standing next to.

Donnal please no more jokes.

happily divorced &amp; loving it,

Lindsay</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Donna,</p>
<p>You comment has to be a joke, right?  A woman complaining about a man comoplaining?? Please give me a break.  I am single &amp; happy with that.  I walk arond cities 7 witness first hand men in company with nagging, moaning, compaining, bitching females.  i feel like saying to them there is life after divorce away from whingers like the thing that you are standing next to.</p>
<p>Donnal please no more jokes.</p>
<p>happily divorced &amp; loving it,</p>
<p>Lindsay</p>
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		<title>By: DONNA</title>
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		<dc:creator>DONNA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2009 01:23:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>MY HUSBAND COMPALINS ABOUT EVERYTHING! EVEN IF I IGNORE HIM. I USED TO TRY TO SOLVE THE THINGS THAT BOTHERED HIM BUT HE HAS A EMENSE LIST OF COMPLAINTS HE ALWAYS FINDS SOMETHING TO COMPLAIN ABOUT! HE IS DRIVING ME CRAZY, WISH HE WOULD JUST GO AWAY!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>MY HUSBAND COMPALINS ABOUT EVERYTHING! EVEN IF I IGNORE HIM. I USED TO TRY TO SOLVE THE THINGS THAT BOTHERED HIM BUT HE HAS A EMENSE LIST OF COMPLAINTS HE ALWAYS FINDS SOMETHING TO COMPLAIN ABOUT! HE IS DRIVING ME CRAZY, WISH HE WOULD JUST GO AWAY!</p>
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