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		<title>When your boss saves your job</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 09:33:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alexander</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bob Sutton, author of the excellent book Good Boss Bad Boss tells this story from the very early days at Pixar: The company was under financial pressure and much of this pressure came down on the heads of the Division&#8217;s leaders, Ed Catmull and Alvy Ray Smith. The new president, Doug Norby, wanted to bring [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bob Sutton, author of the excellent book Good Boss Bad Boss <a href="http://blogs.hbr.org/sutton/2011/01/pixar_lore_the_day_our_bosses.html">tells this story from the very early days at Pixar</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>The company was under financial pressure and much of this pressure came down on the heads of the Division&#8217;s leaders, Ed Catmull and Alvy Ray Smith.</p>
<p>The new president, Doug Norby, wanted to bring some discipline to Lucasfilm, and was pressing Catmull and Smith to do some fairly deep layoffs. The two couldn&#8217;t bring themselves to do it.</p>
<p>But Norby was unmoved. He was pestering Ed and Alvy for a list of names from the Computer Division to lay off, and Ed and Alvy kept blowing him off. Finally came the order: &#8220;You will be in my office tomorrow morning at 9:00 with a list of names.&#8221;</p>
<p>So what did these two bosses do? They showed up in his office at 9:00 and plunked down a list. It had two names on it: Ed Catmull and Alvy Ray Smith.</p></blockquote>
<p>Remember, there are many great managers out there. If you work for one who isn&#8217;t great, don&#8217;t just accept that as the natural state of things. Do something about it.</p>
<h3>Related posts</h3>
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<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2011/03/it-pays-to-be-nice-to-your-employees/">It pays to be nice to your employees</a></li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2009/03/the-seeeeeeriously-cool-way-out-of-a-downturn/">How to handle tough times without layoffs</a></li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2009/02/serving-your-employees/">Serving your employees</a></li>
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		<title>It Pays to be NICE to Your Employees</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Mar 2011 12:59:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alexander</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a guest post by my good buddies Linda and Robin over at THE POWER OF NICE. Managers, when was the last time you asked yourself, “Am I doing enough to show my employees how much I appreciate them?” If you’re unsure, chances are your office could probably benefit from a little gratitude. A [...]]]></description>
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<p><em>This is a guest post by my good buddies Linda and Robin over at THE POWER OF NICE.</em></p>
<p>Managers, when was the last time you asked yourself, “Am I doing enough to show my employees how much I appreciate them?”</p>
<p>If you’re unsure, chances are your office could probably benefit from a little gratitude. A November 2009 Careerbuilder.com survey revealed that 40 percent of employees have difficulty staying motivated at work, while 23 percent describe their office morale as “low.”  What was the reason? As you might have suspected, it was a simple one. They felt unappreciated by their employers. </p>
<p>Contrary to what you might think, however, it doesn’t take a whopping pay raise or a slew of promotions to make employees feel valued. Studies have shown repeatedly that it’s the small, interpersonal gestures that have the biggest payoff.</p>
<p>A 2010 McKinsey study found that the best workplace motivators appeal directly to the emotions, with 67 percent listing praise or recognition from an immediate manager as “effective” or “extremely effective.”  What’s more, respondents found all emotionally based motivators to be more effective than financial ones.</p>
<p>While we certainly can’t argue with the value of congratulating an employee on a job well done, we have another novel trick that we’ve found rather effective: chocolate. Yes, when you “sweeten the deal” quite literally, you’ll find that your employees will actually experience a bit of an emotional boost. It’s not just because of the sweet taste, either. Chocolate contains over 300 different chemicals, including caffeine, theobromine, and phenylethylamine, which stimulate the neurotransmitters in the brain linked to concentration and mood. In other words, a few handfuls of M&#038;M’s could have employees feeling better and working smarter. (Quite a big accomplishment for a little chocolate candy!)</p>
<p>No matter what your approach, demonstrating your gratitude toward your employees and recognizing their accomplishments regularly is a SMALL but highly effective way to transform your office culture and rev up productivity—and as a result, kick your business into high gear. </p>
<p>And that’s something everyone can appreciate.</p>
<p><em>Linda Kaplan Thaler and Robin Koval are the co-authors of the bestselling books, THE POWER OF NICE: How to Conquer the Business World with Kindness and THE POWER OF SMALL: Why Little Things Make All the Difference. To connect with them, follow them on <a href= “http://www.twitter.com”>Twitter</a>, “like” them on <a href= “http://www.facebook.com/thepowerofsmall”>Facebook</a>, or check out their <a href= “http://www.thepowerofsmallbook.com/index.php/pos/blog”>blog</a>.</em></p>
<h3>Related posts</h3>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2010/08/how-to-be-nice-when-youre-the-boss/">How to be nice when you&#8217;re the boss</a>.</li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2008/12/a-note-from-the-boss/">A letter from your new boss.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2007/01/how-to-deal-with-a-bad-boss/">How do you deal with a bad boss?</a></li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2007/06/ask-the-cho-how-do-you-hire-a-happy-manager/">How can companies hire happy managers?</a></li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2009/12/why-do-some-people-like-bad-bosses/">Why do some people like bad bosses?</a></li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2010/10/are-bosses-nice-or-nasty-get-our-survey-results/">Are bosses nice or nasty? Get our survey results</a>.</li>
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		<title>Three ways to deal with off-days at work</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Jan 2011 13:56:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alexander</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Niels Hartvig, founder of Umbraco, the world&#8217;s only open source Microsoft-based CMS, recently asked what he should do about off-days at work among the people at Umbraco HQ: This morning I thought of dealing with off-days. Probably because I had one yesterday. One of the days where I&#8217;m going to work and get very little [...]]]></description>
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<p>Niels Hartvig, founder of <a href="http://umbraco.org/">Umbraco</a>, the world&#8217;s only open source Microsoft-based CMS, recently <a href="http://umbraco.org/follow-us/blog-archive/2011/1/21/off-days">asked what he should do about off-days at work</a> among the people at Umbraco HQ:</p>
<blockquote><p>This morning I thought of dealing with off-days. Probably because I had one yesterday. One of the days where I&#8217;m going to work and get very little done. Not because I don&#8217;t want to, but simply because there&#8217;s some miscommunication between my fingers and my brain. Most programmers &#8211; and creative people in general &#8211; that I&#8217;ve spoke to about this, recognize it immediately yet I haven&#8217;t found anyone who had a &#8216;formal&#8217; policy on dealing with these things. I&#8217;d love to.<br />
&#8230;<br />
We&#8217;re humans &#8211; we&#8217;re not perfect. If it was ok and if everyone in a company could be open, we might start being able to work out patterns for off-days and see if they could be minimized. Or just be turned better. Whether it&#8217;s going home and getting some sleep, seeing a therapist (paid by work), calling your wife or…</p>
<p>I really want to develop some policy around this for the HQ and if it works out, I&#8217;ll blog again. At least a start is simply saying out loud that off-days are fine and a part of us. Until then, let&#8217;s try to help each other with our experiences in the comments &#8211; start the conversation!</p></blockquote>
<p>I think that&#8217;s an awesome question. Let&#8217;s face it, everyone has off-days. No matter how much you love your job, there will be days where you just don&#8217;t feel like it, for whatever reason. Sure you can force yourself to show up anyway, and sometimes it will be fine but most often you waste a day and get very little done. Also, forcing yourself to come in, may mean that you feel even less like working the next day.</p>
<p>And yet, most workplaces completely deny this reality and expect employees to be equally productive, alert and (not least) present every work day.</p>
<p>I would like to suggest three possible policies to deal with off-days:</p>
<p><strong>Suggestion #1 (the easy one): If you have an off-day, say so.</strong><br />
The IT support department at the medical company Leo Pharma are a critical part of the organization. If they’re not picking up the phones, Leo’s 4.000 employees have nowhere to go with their IT-related questions and problems. To ensure that the phones are always manned, a huge whiteboard with a space for each support-worker shows who’s on call at any time.</p>
<p>The IT department realizes, that people have good and bad days, so they set up a simple policy: When employees get in in the morning, they can place a green or a red magnetic tag next to their name. Green means “I’m having a good day”, a red tag means “I’m having a bad day.”</p>
<p>So if a co-worker storms in the door without saying good morning, places at red marker next to his name, and sits at his desk scowling at his computer, you don’t have to wonder “was it something I said?”</p>
<p>This policy does two things for the department:</p>
<ol>
<li>It makes it visible who is having a good or a bad day, and people with red markers are given a little space and leeway. If somebody puts up a red marker every day for a week this becomes visible, and steps can be taken to help that person.</li>
<li>It makes it legal to have a bad day. We all have bad days, but if you have to hide it and pretend to be chipper, it takes longer to get out of the bad mood.</li>
</ol>
<p>Simple and effective. If you have a bad day you still have to come in, but at least you know that it&#8217;s OK.</p>
<p><strong>Suggestion #2 (the radical one): If you don&#8217;t feel like coming to work, don&#8217;t come to work.</strong><br />
I know of a few workplaces in Denmark that have actually introduced this rule: If you really, really don&#8217;t feel like working you can call in and say you&#8217;re taking an off-day. The rule is that you don&#8217;t have to explain or justify yourself. Also, it&#8217;s not a day off or a sick day, so you&#8217;ll have to make up the lost time later.</p>
<p>The &#8220;if you don&#8217;t feel like working, then don&#8217;t&#8221; rule has some clear advantages:</p>
<ol>
<li> Just knowing that you don&#8217;t have to go to work if you don&#8217;t want to, can make a bad day better.</li>
<li> If you don&#8217;t want to work, you don&#8217;t have to demean yourself and the workplace by lying and calling in sick.</li>
<li> When you take the off-day, you can return to work the next day with new energy.</li>
<li> You don&#8217;t have to waste time in the office being unproductive.</li>
<li> You don&#8217;t have to bring your bad mood into the office and infect everyone around you.</li>
<li> If someone takes a lot of off-days, that&#8217;s a clear warning sign, that they&#8217;re unhappy at work and something needs to be done.</li>
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<p>Before introducing a rule like this, I think a workplace would need to have a conversation to decide when it&#8217;s OK to take an off-day. You could even write down the rules, ie. &#8220;It&#8217;s OK to take an off-day if the very thought of going to work makes you want to kill yourself, but not if it&#8217;s a Friday and the weather&#8217;s nice and you just feel more like going to the beach.&#8221;</p>
<p>Stephan wrote a comment on Niels&#8217; original post saying pretty much the same thing, but for school kids:</p>
<blockquote><p>Reminds me of some friends of my parents, who had the following family rule: each child was allowed to have one single &#8220;I don&#8217;t want to go to school&#8221; day per year. On that special day, parents would not ask any question (eg why? are you ok?). They would just write the obligatory excuse note saying something along &#8220;little John was not feeling well yesterday&#8221;.<br />
Funny enough, knowing that they could decide not to go (but then they&#8217;d loose that possibility for the rest of the year) was usually enough, and it was common that at the end of the year, the &#8220;off-day&#8221; credit had not been used.</p>
<p>And no, you could not carry your unused day over to the next year ;-)</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>Suggestion #3: The really radical one: Give people complete freedom to work whenever they want.</strong><br />
What if workplaces completely stopped making rules for or monitoring when people work? What if we just acknowledged that our employees are responsible adults, who are eminently capable of deciding when they are productive and when they&#8217;re not? What if we stopped focusing on how many hours people work and instead focused on the results they get?</p>
<p>That is the point of <a href="http://gorowe.com/">ROWE</a>, Results Only Work Environments. <a href="http://www.businessweek.com/magazine/content/06_50/b4013001.htm">This article</a> gives a great introduction to ROWEs:</p>
<blockquote><p>At most companies, going AWOL during daylight hours would be grounds for a pink slip. Not at Best Buy. The nation&#8217;s leading electronics retailer has embarked on a radical&#8211;if risky&#8211;experiment to transform a culture once known for killer hours and herd-riding bosses. The endeavor, called ROWE, for &#8220;results-only work environment,&#8221; seeks to demolish decades-old business dogma that equates physical presence with productivity. The goal at Best Buy is to judge performance on output instead of hours.</p>
<p>Hence workers pulling into the company&#8217;s amenity-packed headquarters at 2 p.m. aren&#8217;t considered late. Nor are those pulling out at 2 p.m. seen as leaving early. There are no schedules. No mandatory meetings. No impression-management hustles. Work is no longer a place where you go, but something you do. It&#8217;s O.K. to take conference calls while you hunt, collaborate from your lakeside cabin, or log on after dinner so you can spend the afternoon with your kid.</p></blockquote>
<p>This is what we do in our company &#8211; our rule is that you work when you want to and don&#8217;t when you don&#8217;t. You will never be judged by how many hours you work but only by the results you get and the value you contribute.</p>
<p>Another example is sports wear maker Patagonia which has surf boards lined up in the office near the beach in Southern California. Their founder Yvon Chouinard explains why:</p>
<blockquote><p>I’m a businessman, but I’m still going to do things on my own terms. I’m going to break a lot of rules, and we’re going to blur the distinction between work and play. So we have a policy here – it’s called “Let My People Go Surfing.” A policy which is, when the surf comes up, anybody can just go surfing. Any time of the day, you just take off and go surfing… That attitude changes your whole life. If your life is set up so that you can drop anything when the surf comes up, it changes the whole way you do your life. And it has changed this whole company here.
</p></blockquote>
<p>Nice, huh?</p>
<h3>Related posts</h3>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2010/02/5-new-rules-of-productivity/">The Top 5 New Rules of Productivity</a></li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2006/11/how-to-procrastinate-effectively/">How to Procrastinate Effectively</a></li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2006/10/how-to-turn-around-a-bad-day/">How to turn around a bad day at work</a></li>
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<h3>Your take</h3>
<p>How does you workplace deal with off-days? Are people required to show up anyway? Which of the three suggestions above would you like to see introduced where you work? See any risks or pitfalls? Please write a comment, I&#8217;d love to hear your take.</p>
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		<title>Leaders must address emotions in the workplace</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Dec 2010 12:27:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alexander</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My friend Michael Stallard has written an article together with Howard Behar, the former president of Starbucks. Their premise is this: American leaders need to wake up and smell the coffee. Research from two well-respected organizations makes it clear that we have a big collective blind spot that’s dragging down productivity, innovation and economic performance. [...]]]></description>
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<p>My friend Michael Stallard<a href="http://www.michaelleestallard.com/overcoming-leadership-myopia"> has written an article</a> together with Howard Behar, the former president of Starbucks. Their premise is this:</p>
<blockquote><p>American leaders need to wake up and smell the coffee.  Research from  two well-respected organizations makes it clear that we have a big  collective blind spot that’s dragging down productivity, innovation and  economic performance.</p></blockquote>
<p>So what&#8217;s wrong? It&#8217;s simple:</p>
<blockquote><p>Gradually over time, America has become overly obsessed about managing  tasks.   In our quest to produce results, we have lost sight of the  importance of engaging people. As human beings we have emotions. We have  hopes and dreams. We have a conscience. We want to be respected, to be  recognized for our talents, to belong, to have autonomy or control over  our work and our lives, to experience personal growth, and to do work  that we believe is worthwhile and in a way that we feel is ethical. It’s  how we are wired.</p>
<p>&#8230;</p>
<p>We need to recognize that emotions have a disproportionate effect when  it comes to inspiring people or burning them out.  An earlier Corporate  Executive Board research report showed that emotional factors were four  times more effective than rational factors such as compensation when it  came to motivating human beings to give their best efforts.</p></blockquote>
<p>All I can say is: Woohooooo! <a href="http://www.michaelleestallard.com/overcoming-leadership-myopia">Read the whole article here</a>.</p>
<p>I have written about this previously here:</p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2007/02/the-feel-factor-why-no-workplace-can-afford-to-ignore-emotions/">Why no workplace can afford to ignore emotions</a>.</li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2007/01/podcast-about-emotions-at-work/">Anna Farmery interviews me about emotions in the workplace</a>.</li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/happyhouris9to5/bookhtml/happyhouris9to54.html">Chapter 1 from my book Happy Hour is 9 to 5</a>.</li>
</ul>
<p>What do you think? Are emotions acknowledged, allowed and addressed in your workplace? Or do leaders where you work still try to pretend we&#8217;re all robots who can leave their feelings at home?</p>
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		<title>How to treat new employees</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Nov 2010 13:23:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alexander</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A few weeks ago I spoke with Jane, who&#8217;d just been hired as a project manager. She was excited to start in the new company, but her first day at work was not exactly a good experience. Her boss was out to meetings all day and her new colleagues were so busy that nobody had [...]]]></description>
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<blockquote><p>A few weeks ago I spoke with Jane, who&#8217;d just been hired as a project manager. She was excited to start in the new company, but her first day at work was not exactly a good experience. Her boss was out to meetings all day and her new colleagues were so busy that nobody had time to brief her of her tasks.</p>
<p>There wasn&#8217;t even a desk ready for her and she had to go get a PC from the IT department and an access card from security herself. Jane felt let down, ignored and badly treated and now doubts very much whether she took the right job.</p></blockquote>
<p>A person&#8217;s first day on a new job is a stressful time even under the best of circumstances. You don&#8217;t know anyone there, you don&#8217;t know your job, you don&#8217;t know the written and unwritten rules of the workplace &#8211; and yet you have a burning desire to do well, to show your worth and to excel.</p>
<p>The least a workplace can do is to make an effort to show new hires that they&#8217;re wanted and make their first day a nice one.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a crucial time and that is why welcoming new people does actually pay off. Studies show that new employees who have undergone a successful start-up process are 69% more likely to still be in the company after 3 years and they reach their full production rate 2 months faster.</p>
<p>The alternative &#8211; for employees who simply get thrown in to sink or swim &#8211; is r<em>eality shock</em>. They feel that the job doesn&#8217;t meet the expectations created during hiring and that will make them less happy at work, less committed and more likely to leave the company again.</p>
<p>And this is not exactly rocket science. Here are 4 practical tips to how any organization should treat all new employees.</p>
<h3>1: Be there for them the first day.</h3>
<p>It is crucial that the manager is there to meet new employees with a smile and a handshake when they arrive. There should be time set aside for meeting the colleagues, e.g. over breakfast in the department. A bottle of wine or a bouquet of flowers as a small welcome gift would not be a bad thing. The U.S. dialysis company DaVita even send a bouquet of flowers home to the spouse, to also welcome them in the DaVita family.</p>
<p>Also, the manager should be there again at the end of the first work day, to ask how the first day went and follow up on any problems or questions.</p>
<h3>2: Have the practical stuff ready</h3>
<p>It is not a good sign if people arrive on their first day and neither desk, PC, login or access card  is ready. That&#8217;s why all the practical things just have to be in place before they arrive.</p>
<h3>3: Give them a solid technical introduction</h3>
<p>It should be needless to mention it, but new employees have to be promptly and thoroughly briefed about the professional skills they need in order to do their job well. In Rosenbluth International, a travel agency in the U.S., all new employees spent a week with one of the most seasoned co-workers, so they could see exactly how to do things. Of course it cost the experienced staff some time, but that time investment paid off many times because the new employees learned how to do the job just as well as the very best.</p>
<h3>4: Lay down the culture</h3>
<p>And just as important as the professional introduction is the cultural &#8211; that new employees from the start experience the organization&#8217;s culture from its best side. All new employees at Disney<br />
World in Florida (about 15,000 new people a year!) take part in a 1-day course called Disney Traditions, which has one single purpose: To teach them the Disney culture. Here the story of Walt Disney and all the positive things the company stands for is told. It gives pride and happiness at work from day one.</p>
<p>Zappos.com go even further. The company is only 11 years old, but already sell shoes online for over 1 billion dollars a year. Here all new employees join a 4-week seminar, which introduces them to the professional content of the job, but especially to the Zappos culture characterized by commitment, happiness at work and good service. As part of the course all the new people get &#8216;the offer&#8217;: &#8220;If you feel that you do not belong to Zappos, and choose to quit before the course is over, then you get paid for the 4 weeks plus $ 2000 on top. &#8221; It ensures that all those who are not quite sure if Zappos is right for them, leave the job early.</p>
<p>The first time in a new job very much sets the trend for the rest of your time at the work place which is why every workplace should take extreme care to greet people in the best possible way.</p>
<p>And if you want to know how your workplace is doing, here is my challenge to you: Find 3 of your newest employees and ask them how their first days in the company felt. And then listen openly to what they have to say.</p>
<h3>Your take</h3>
<p>What were your first few days in your current job like? What&#8217;s the best thing a workplace has done for you as a new hire? What&#8217;s the worst thing? Did you ever feel uncertain or unwelcome? Please write a comment, I&#8217;d love to know your take.</p>
<h3>Related posts</h3>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2008/12/a-note-from-the-boss/">A note from your new boss</a></li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2009/07/happiness-at-work-at-zappos/">Happiness at work at Zappos</a></li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2009/02/serving-your-employees/">Serving your employees</a></li>
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		<title>Monday Tip: Give you co-workers a morning surprise</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Oct 2010 08:22:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alexander</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We recently did two full-day workshops for the Copenhagen division of Danish electronics wholesaler Solar, and they have really embraced workplace happiness. Last Monday, the two managers Carsten and Karsten decided to surprise their people with a friendly greeting. They stood in the reception area that Monday morning and gave each of their employees a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We recently did two full-day workshops for the Copenhagen division of Danish electronics wholesaler Solar, and they have really embraced workplace happiness. Last Monday, the two managers Carsten and Karsten decided to surprise their people with a friendly greeting. They stood in the reception area that Monday morning and gave each of their employees a friendly, high-energy good morning and a breakfast plate.</p>
<p>Watch this:<br />
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<p>Several of their employees wrote us later to tell us how much they appreciated this simple gesture and the spirit it was performed in. Kudos to Carsten and Karsten for taking a good idea and running with it.</p>
<p>How could you greet your co-workers on a regular, gray, boring Monday morning to get their work week off to a happy start?</p>
<p><em>The Chief Happiness Officer&#8217;s Monday tips are simple, easy, fun  things you can do to make yourself and others happy at work and get the  work-week off to a great start. Something everyone can do in five  minutes, tops. When you try it, write a comment here to tell me how it  went.</em></p>
<p><em><a href="http://positivesharing.com/category/monday-tips">Previous Monday tips</a>.</em></p>
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		<title>How to be nice&#8230; when you&#8217;re the boss</title>
		<link>http://positivesharing.com/2010/08/how-to-be-nice-when-youre-the-boss/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Aug 2010 15:22:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alexander</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Linda and Robin (authors of the excellent book The Power of Nice) just blogged about niceness in managers, and their post is one of those bad-news-good-news deals. First the bad news. They write that: Some scientific studies suggest that being in a position of authority has a unique effect on the human brain, that can [...]]]></description>
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<p>Linda and Robin (authors of the excellent book The Power of Nice) <a href="http://www.thepowerofsmallbook.com/index.php/pon/comments/525/">just blogged about niceness in managers</a>, and their post is one of those bad-news-good-news deals. First the bad news. They write that:</p>
<blockquote><p>Some scientific studies suggest that being in a position of authority has a unique effect on the human brain, that can cause people to become less sympathetic to the emotions and concerns of others—and as history has shown us, this can have a devastating effect on a business’ bottom line.</p></blockquote>
<p>I agree completely. There are two unfortunate factors working against niceness in management:</p>
<p><strong>1: Many organizations don&#8217;t see niceness as a success factor in managers.</strong><br />
When they promote people to management positions, they may pick people who are professional, experienced, assertive, etc. Studies also show, that they tend to pick people who are taller than average and have good hair. Seriously.</p>
<p>In fact, being nice can actually hinder your career prospects. Just think of the old saw that &#8220;Nice guys finish last.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>2: Being given authority can actually make a person less nice.</strong><br />
Bob Sutton <a href="http://bobsutton.typepad.com/my_weblog/2007/01/index.html">wrote about this</a> in The No Asshole Rule:</p>
<blockquote><p>One of the simplest and yet most fascinating experiments to test the thesis is the &#8220;cookie crumbles&#8221; experiment. Researchers placed college students in groups of three and gave them an artificial assignment  &#8212;  collaboration on a short policy paper about a social issue. They then randomly assigned one of the students to evaluate the other two for points that would affect their ability to win a cash bonus. Having set up this artificial power hierarchy, researchers then casually brought to working trios plates containing five cookies.</p>
<p>They found that not only did the disinhibited &#8220;powerful&#8221; students eat more than their share of the cookies, they were more likely to chew with their mouths open and to scatter crumbs over the table.</p></blockquote>
<p>Fortunately, there&#8217;s good news too in Linda&#8217;s and Robin&#8217;s post.</p>
<blockquote><p>In order for NICE guys who made it to the top to avoid falling victim to the power paradox, all they need to do is flex their NICE muscles, daily.</p></blockquote>
<p>They go on to give some specific actions that managers can take to stay nice. Go read their post, it&#8217;s excellent.</p>
<p>And of course I hardly have to add that nice managers are essential to happiness at work. They&#8217;re much more likely to be happy themselves, much more likely to have happy employees and hence are much more successful.</p>
<h3>Your take</h3>
<p>Is niceness a trait you want to see in your boss? Who&#8217;s the nicest boss you&#8217;ve ever had? What did he or she do that worked? What did that do to you and your colleagues? Please write a comment, I&#8217;d love to know your take.</p>
<h3>Related posts</h3>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2008/12/a-note-from-the-boss/">A letter from your new boss.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2007/01/how-to-deal-with-a-bad-boss/">How do you deal with a bad boss?</a></li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2007/06/ask-the-cho-how-do-you-hire-a-happy-manager/">How can companies hire happy managers?</a></li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2009/12/why-do-some-people-like-bad-bosses/">Why do some people like bad bosses?</a></li>
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		<title>Motivation &#8211; you&#8217;re doing it wrong</title>
		<link>http://positivesharing.com/2009/09/motivation-youre-doing-it-wrong/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2009 12:01:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alexander</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s (yet another) great TED presentation &#8211; this one is by Dan Pink and is about the mismatch between what science knows and what businesses do to motivate people. Dan&#8217;s point is that rewarding performance mostly doesn&#8217;t work and often leads to worse performance. For tasks that are simple and straight-forward and require no creativity [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s (yet another) great TED presentation &#8211; this one is by Dan Pink and is about the mismatch between what science knows and what businesses do to motivate people.</p>
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<p>Dan&#8217;s point is that rewarding performance mostly doesn&#8217;t work and often leads to <em>worse</em> performance.</p>
<p>For tasks that are simple and straight-forward and require no creativity or cognitive skills, extrinsic motivation works fine and promising people rewards for good performance increases performance.</p>
<p>But as soon as a task requires even rudimentary cognitive skills, performance decreases if you offer performance rewards. And the larger the reward, the worse the performance.</p>
<h3>Related posts</h3>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2006/12/why-motivation-by-pizza-doesnt-work/">Why pizza doesn&#8217;t motivate</a></li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2007/09/how-leaders-motivate-or-not/">How leaders motivate &#8211; or not</a></li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2007/08/the-big-hoax/">The big hoax</a></li>
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		<title>A disgusting, dangerous and wrong business practice &#8211; a look at Fernando Flores&#8217; methods</title>
		<link>http://positivesharing.com/2009/08/a-disgusting-dangerous-and-wrong-business-practice/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2009 17:20:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alexander</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I recently got an email from a reader of this blog asking if I&#8217;d ever heard of Fernando Flores. I hadn&#8217;t &#8211; but he supplied a link to this article in Fast Company, which chilled my blood when I read it. The article opens with this: Fernando Flores was Chile&#8217;s minister of finance &#8212; and, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I recently got an email from a reader of this blog asking if I&#8217;d ever heard of Fernando Flores. I hadn&#8217;t &#8211; but he supplied a link to <a href="http://www.fastcompany.com/magazine/21/flores.html">this article in Fast Company</a>, which chilled my blood when I read it.</p>
<p>The article opens with this:</p>
<blockquote><p>Fernando Flores was Chile&#8217;s minister of finance &#8212; and, later, a political prisoner. Now he teaches companies how to use assessments and commitments to transform the way they do business. The outcome: executives who speak and act with intention.</p></blockquote>
<p>That&#8217;s all well and good. But then comes this description from a session Flores runs with a management team from a global construction company:</p>
<blockquote><p>The session has only started and already Flores has had enough. He lifts his 6-foot, 220-pound frame from his chair. Imagine a bear rising up on its hind legs: The men are simply not prepared for how big Flores is when he stands &#8212; or how fierce. He turns on Tomas, a relative newcomer to Flores&#8217;s sessions.</p>
<p>&#8220;Tomas,&#8221; Flores begins, &#8220;tell me: Why is change taking so long here?&#8221; Tomas responds: The group is resisting Flores&#8217;s approach. To Flores, Tomas&#8217;s answer sounds like projection. It is Tomas who is resisting change. Flores invites Tomas&#8217;s colleagues to &#8220;assess&#8221; Tomas. One executive leaps to the challenge. &#8220;Tomas, you are blind, egotistical, and inwardly focused,&#8221; he says. &#8220;I can&#8217;t challenge you without your getting defensive.&#8221;</p>
<p>The words leave Tomas stunned. &#8220;Tomas,&#8221; Flores says, &#8220;say, &#8216;Thank you for that assessment.&#8217; &#8221; The words are part of a script written on an easel next to Flores. Tomas tries to repeat them, but he stutters when he gets to the word &#8220;sincerity,&#8221; even though the rest of his English is nearly perfect. Flores prompts Tomas, &#8220;Follow the script, exactly as it is written&#8221;<br />
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&#8220;Tomas,&#8221; Flores says, &#8220;why this rebel-child attitude? Can&#8217;t you answer me?&#8221; Flores turns away in disgust. Another colleague uses the script to assess Tomas. &#8220;Tomas,&#8221; he begins, &#8220;you are a bureaucrat. You are married to rules, not to listening.&#8221; In fact, Tomas keeps his head down, scribbling notes, unable to look at his colleagues. Flores asks Tomas what he learned from this comment.</p>
<p>&#8220;That I have more work to do,&#8221; Tomas whispers.</p>
<p>Flores eyes the group warily. &#8220;I am using Tomas for one purpose,&#8221; he says, &#8220;to show you what transformation is not. To show you what it means to be weak and insincere.&#8221;
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<p>Yikes!</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know what&#8217;s worse &#8211; the awful methods Flores employs; the fawning tone in the Fast Company article, which makes him sound like a corporate superhero swooping in to save business in trouble; or the fact that he charges companies millions of dollars for his assistance.</p>
<p>To me, this is one of the most disgusting business practices I&#8217;ve ever heard of. I&#8217;m all for honesty and openness but that is obviously NOT what Flores is preaching. As the first comment on the article says, his methods are sociopathic:</p>
<blockquote><p>I have visited seminars sponsored by Flores, in Chile, and have known, rather well, several people who were &#8220;disciples&#8221; of Flores.</p>
<p>Listening to him he struck me as rude, manipulative, AND SOCIOPATHIC. I worked with one person who, presumably, was one of Flores main students, and the guy was, like Flores, rude, insensitive, overbearing, and most importantly ineffective. He actually ruined a business in which I was involved. His partners dumped him.</p></blockquote>
<p>There are many things wrong with Flores&#8217; methods &#8211; here are the top 5 reasons why I hate what he does.</p>
<p><strong>1: It does NOT create commitment and open communication</strong><br />
Flores calls his approach commitment management. According to the Fast Company article, his aim is to teach managers:</p>
<blockquote><p>to master &#8220;speech acts&#8221;: language rituals that build trust between colleagues and customers, word practices that open your eyes to new possibilities.</p></blockquote>
<p>Riiiiiight!</p>
<p>There are proven ways of generating positive, constructive openness in groups &#8211; ways that encourage open feedback, receptive listening and mutual support and learning. What Flores does is pretty much the exact opposite.</p>
<p><strong>2: It makes people unhappy and frustrated</strong><br />
I&#8217;ve seen the results of these methods myself. I once visited a customer site for a sales meeting &#8211; and during the meeting, while we were discussing something completely innocuous, one of the customers broke down crying. Turns out she&#8217;d recently attended a similar seminar where co-workers were encouraged to criticise each other harshly and the results had been devastating for her and the team.</p>
<p><strong>3: All disagreement is labeled as weakness or obstruction</strong><br />
You can see for yourself what happens to Tomas above, when he shows the slighted sign of dissent from Flores&#8217; abusive methods: He is ridiculed and made a target for further attention.</p>
<p>This is in fact a tactic used in many cults (e.g. Scientology) where all dissent is punished in similar ways.</p>
<p>If you have legitimate questions and concerns about the process you should be allowed to voice them, not automatically be labeled as &#8220;weak and insincere&#8221; as Tomas is.</p>
<p><strong>4: It rewards the wrong people and the wrong behavior</strong><br />
Flores&#8217; methods reward two kinds of people: Those who actively enjoy being jerks and those who are too weak to say no. That can&#8217;t possibly be good for an organization.</p>
<p><strong>5: It doesn&#8217;t work!!!</strong><br />
And here&#8217;s the ironic part: It doesn&#8217;t even work! The reader who told me about Flores used to work at a company that used his services, and the result was internal warfare on a scale that made all their best people defect to their competitors. Essentially, it put the company in a weakened state, from which it has not yet recovered.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not alone in being aghast at Fernando Flores and his methods. I told some other business bloggers I admire about him and here are some reactions.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.allthingsworkplace.com/2009/08/just-when-you-thought-it-was-safe-to-go-out-.html">Steve Roesler over at All Things Workplace says</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>Buying into any activity that tears people down, demeans, and disrespects them in the name of &#8220;honesty&#8221; shows a lack of wisdom and discernment at best and, at worst, a willingness to trade off the health and well-being of employees for a promise of quick results. If you haven&#8217;t yet been exposed to these tactics masquerading as &#8220;development&#8221;, be alert. In difficult times humans are especially susceptible to promises of deliverance.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a quick and easy test.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s say your mother decides to stop by and cook dinner for you and your spouse. It was made with love but really wasn&#8217;t all that tasty. So you show her how enlightened you are in order to create an even closer, more trusting relationship that will help you truly bond:</p>
<p>&#8220;Well, Mom, you have no skills…and you are fu_ _ed up when you leave here.”</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t think you would. </p></blockquote>
<p><a href="http://blog.reemer.com/post/161980817/which-type-of-company-would-you-rather-work-for">Kareem Mayan adds</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>What a joke. Telling people bluntly and rudely what you think about them is not a gift or an invention. It’s another fad preached by a “rockstar guru” that promises results to sub-par managers if you follow the One True Way.</p>
<p>If you want your co-workers to improve, honesty is important. But being an asshole has been proven to be an ineffective management strategy. So why even bother beating this drum? 21st century companies focus on outcomes, connections, people, and creativity. </p></blockquote>
<h3>Your take</h3>
<p>What do you think of this? Have you ever been subject to something similar? What would you do if someone tried to treat you in this way? Write a comment!</p>
<h3>Related posts</h3>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2006/08/top-5-business-maxims-that-need-to-go">Top 5 Business Maxims that Need to Go</a></li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2009/02/serving-your-employees/">Put Your Employees First</a></li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2006/09/how-to-lose-your-fear-of-being-fired/">How to Lose Your Fear of Being Fired</a></li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2007/01/how-to-deal-with-a-bad-boss/">How to Handle a Bad Boss</a></li>
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		<title>Leadership is&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://positivesharing.com/2009/07/leadership-is/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 15:25:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alexander</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A couple of weeks ago I was writing my regular op-ed piece on leadership for a major Danish newspaper and I was plumb out if ideas. It&#8217;s funny how your creativity can get stuck when you&#8217;re looking at an empty word document and a looming deadline :o) So I asked for ideas in my twitter [...]]]></description>
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<p>A couple of weeks ago I was writing my regular op-ed piece on leadership for a major Danish newspaper and I was plumb out if ideas. It&#8217;s funny how your creativity can get stuck when you&#8217;re looking at an empty word document and a looming deadline :o)</p>
<p>So I asked for ideas in my twitter feed (<a href="http://twitter.com/alexkjerulf">follow me on twitter</a>) and got tons of input, of which the email I got from <a href="http://twitter.com/JoeLovesToSell">Joe D. Calhoun</a>, Director of Business Development at Paraco Gas Corporation was by far the coolest.</p>
<p>Here is Joe&#8217;s email in full &#8211; read and enjoy, it&#8217;s excellent!</p>
<blockquote><p>When it comes to leadership &#8230; we have all been told leaders are born, not made, that leadership is about ego, nice guys finish last.  BUNK &#8230;. Leadership is all about happiness. Seeking a means to find the greatest good for the greatest number of people. If you&#8217;re happy and your know it &#8230; share it &#8230; find a way to lead others to it &#8230; nice guys DO finish first. </p>
<p>Leadership is also NOT about a title or a job or position.  I have had jobs that were very low on the totem pole of life and yet I was looked up to for my leadership of taking on a task and seeing it through to completion &#8230; all the while doing it with my &#8220;excessively happy&#8221; style.  Volunteerism is leadership of the happiest sort.  A labor of love &#8230; working for free (and I have been doing a lot of that lately as I have been un-employed) and supporting a cause &#8211; sometimes one that is not sexy and glamorous.  This year I helped an organization plan, solicit donations, decorate, facilitate live and silent auctions, all to raise $20,000 for the treatment of drug and alcohol additions. I loved it &#8230; Leadership is love.</p>
<p>Leadership takes energy &#8230; do you know any energetic people that are not happy? Energy to face the challenges of anything with a smile on your face and find new ways of solving problems. </p>
<p>Ask most leaders &#8230; they will tell you &#8230; they feel &#8220;called&#8221; to lead.  Every calling has an innermost happiness associated with it.  I recently accepted a job offer &#8230; I knew 30 minutes into the interview that I would take the job &#8230; it felt right in my gut.  I felt like I was supposed to be doing this.  This sense of calling came while discussing the opportunity and the company.  I had prepared three pages of notes for the interview &#8230; questions &#8230; things I thought I wanted to discuss.  Instead we talked about the industry &#8230; laughed and I read the plan they had for expansion of the department. I was the right peg for the hole &#8230; I knew it &#8230; they knew it.  Leadership is having a calling and answering it &#8230; and that feeling in your gut is ultimately tied to &#8220;how happy will this make me?&#8221;
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<p>That&#8217;s a nice little manifesto for leadership right there! <a href="http://twitter.com/JoeLovesToSell">Click here for more cool thoughts from Joe</a>.</p>
<h3>Your take</h3>
<p>What do you think &#8211; are leaders born or made? Does your boss have your happiness in mind? Is there any room for love in your workplace?</p>
<h3>Relatede posts</h3>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2008/12/a-note-from-the-boss/">A not from the boss</a></li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2006/08/top-5-business-maxims-that-need-to-go/">Top 5 business maxims that need to go</a></li>
<li><a href="http://positivesharing.com/2007/01/how-to-deal-with-a-bad-boss/">How to deal with a bad boss</a></li>
<li><a href="http://changethis.com/36.04.HappyatWork">The Happiness at Work Manifesto</a></li>
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