• Get more sleep- be happier at work

    Sleep and happiness at work

    I think we’ve all experienced how getting too little sleep makes us tired and crabby. So it can hardly be a good thing that:

    • 8 out of 10 Americans report at least one negative professional side-effect of getting a poor night’s sleep
    • Only 27 percent of Americans get the recommended eight hours of sleep each work night
    • 17 percent of Americans only get 5 hours of sleep Monday through Friday (Studies show that getting only 5 hours of sleep per night for a week induces an impairment level equal to a blood alcohol level of 0.1 percent.)
    • Of the overwhelming majority of workers suffering from sleep deprivation, 44 percent say they experience bad moods and unfriendliness

    It’s a classic dilemma: We want to get more work done, so we work longer hours and sleep less. This in turn makes us less efficient at work, so we work even longer hours and sleep even less and, boom, you have a negative spiral going.

    Also, spending your work day being tired and irritable is not exactly the recipe for happiness at work :o) What good is it to make your day an hour or two longer by sleeping less, if losing that sleep means you can’t really enjoy your day?

    The Better Sleep Council has some very specific tips on how you can increase productivity by getting the sleep you need, including:

    1. Pay your sleep debt. It’s important to schedule 8 hours of sleep each night (7.5 to 8.5 is optimal) and maintain a regular sleep and wake schedule, even on the weekend.
    2. Bedroom business. Use your bedroom for sleep and sex only.
    3. Kick the caffeine habit. Avoid tea, coffee and soft drinks close to bedtime.

    Or maybe the solution is different for you. According to a new movement called the B-Society, some people are just not made to function optimally early in the morning. Even if they do get 8 hours of sleep, they only really kick into gear around 10 in the morning, and businesses should cater to these people also.

    The first Danish company has just been b-certified, meaning they acknowledge that this is how some people work, and structure their jobs accordingly.

    To me this is just common sense. Few business really need every employee to show op around the same time and could they just as easily leave this up to the individual employee, so they can decide what works best for them.

    That will certainly make them happier at work!

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  • Ask the CHO: Happy companies and happy cultures

    Ask the Chief Happiness OfficerI got this question from a reader who would like to be anonymous:

    As you travel around on your speaking engagements, and you work with and meet a variety of people, are you able to get a sense of what companies are really committed to the concepts you espouse? If yes, have you thought about, or do you have a listing or directory of these companies? If no, is there interest in drumming up such a directory, sort of a Who’s Who of Happiness?????

    I for one am interested; and, I have passed your information along to all my colleagues — hence the reason I would like to remain anonymous. Yes, I am looking to leave my very unhappy situation. In fact, I recently used your interview questions on more than one occasion to suss out whether or not a prospective company was the right fit for me.

    I would also like to know if geographics and culture play a part in whether or not a company or corporation — and its leadership — are more apt to implement, maintain and sustain a Happiness Workplace. For example, in the US we are seeing less and less of a work/life balance. A culture that puts work before family and personal life seems like it might not value happiness, so I am curious to learn if there are factors popping up that indicate culture and work ethics play a part.

    Thank you, CHO, for your time and great work!

    First of all, thanks for the kind words :o)

    I work with a LOT of companies, and I do get a very good sense of which ones are truly committed to happiness at work and which ones just say they are.

    Because almost every company these days will tell you that they want motivated, happy, empowered employees, but not all companies live up to it in practice.

    Working with managers and people, I quickly get an idea of where a company really stands – and that could definitely be put into a listing of sorts. Or maybe something like a certification? As in “this company is certifiably happy” :o) Not a bad idea!

    As for your second question: Yes, geography and national culture certainly makes a difference. For instance, because taxes in Denmark are the highest in the world, fewer people bother with overwork and consequently Danish workers achieve the best work/life balance in the world.

    Also, according to the work of Geert Hofstede, there are differences between corporate cultures in various nations, which he categorizes using five parameters:

    • Low vs. High Power Distance
    • Individualism vs. collectivism
    • Masculinity vs. femininity
    • Uncertainty avoidance
    • Long vs. short term orientation

    Read more about these here.

    In my opinion, happiness at work is more likely to be found in an organizational culture that has:

    • Low power distance – so you can have good easy-going relations between managers and employees
    • A reasonable balance between individualism and collectivism- so it’s not all about me, but not all about us either
    • A more feminine work culture – so people care about each other
    • A low uncertainty avoidance – so people are willing to take risks and make mistakes
    • A long term orientation – so it’s not all about this quarter’s results

    I have no proof for this and have seen no studies on it, so this is purely my gut feeling. However, this is pretty much what characterizes Scandinavian business culture, and Scandinavian workers are the happiest in the world, so there may be something there…

    One thing that also varies between nations is people’s expectations for happiness at work. In Scandinavia we have a long tradition of focusing in employees’ welfare, so most people expect to get a job they will at least like, of not love.

    In other countries, most people are still new to the idea that it’s even possible like your job – they expect work to be hard and unpleasant. Fortunately this is changing all over the world, and more and more people are choosing happiness at work.

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  • Happiness is all around – and so am I

    4good StockholmLast week was a very busy one for me, where I had no less than 4 gigs last week of a wildly varying nature.

    From talking to a group of students from Aiesec about happiness at work in a volunteer organization, to talking to a group of insurance claims handlers about stress and busyness. That last presentation, incidentally, happened on one of their busiest days, because Denmark had just been hit by severe thunderstorms – giving insurance companies nationwide a lot of extra work. Talk about good timing :o)

    Thursday I presented on happiness at the reboot conference. Preparing for this, it turned out that working with happiness at work for the last 4 years has also taught me a lot about happiness in general – partly because I’ve been keeping up with a lot of the research done in positive psychology and in economics, but mostly because in that period I have literally lived for happiness – mine and others’.

    The presentation content itself turned out to be completely different from my “happiness at work” presentations, and I had to develop a completely new presentation for this event.

    My main points were:

    1. Happiness is the point of our existence. We’re here to be happy.
    2. Happiness is easy. Everything we need to be happy is easy to get.
    3. We tend not to know what makes us happy.
    4. Happiness is subversive. Happy people are the greatest danger to some of the structures in society that are holding us back.

    I like how the presentation went and some people told me later that it was one of their favorite reboot experiences.

    Stephanie Booth was there, and she was kind enough to blog some amazing notes. You can also download my slides.

    4good Stockholm

    Then on Friday I went to Stockholm to do my first presentation in Sweden and that went even better. A group of around 50 business leaders, HR people and journalists heard my standard presentation on happiness at work and they really, really seemed to like it.

    Which is good, because I did the event together with Swedish speaker bureau 4good, and we’re hoping to develop many more speaking gigs for me in Sweden.


  • Monday Tip: Get som gourmet coffee (or tea)

    The Chief Happiness Officer's monday tipsWhat would happen, if just for one day the regular, anonymous coffee in your workplace had been replaced by some kind of delicious gourmet brew?

    Maybe some Indian Willoughby AA, some Sumatran Green Mountain or if you’re feeling especially adventurous, how about some weasel coffee where the coffee beans have been eaten and then chucked up by weasels. No, I’m not kidding.

    That’s your Monday mission this week. Hit up your corner coffee shop for some good coffee and enjoy that in the office. If you print out a little sign explaining the new coffee and what kind it is – even better!

    Of course, this works with tea too :o)

    The Chief Happiness Officer’s Monday tips are simple, easy, fun things you can do to make yourself and others happy at work and get the work-week off to a great start. Something everyone can do in five minutes, tops. When you try it, write a comment here to tell me how it went.

    Previous monday tips.


  • At Reboot9 today

    Alexander KjerulfI’m at Reboot9 today – If you’re at Reboot too, please find me and say “Hi!” :o)

    But do it today – I can’t be there tomorrow because I’m speaking on happiness at work in Stockholm.

    And if you’d like to know more about happiness, please join my presentation at 15:00.


  • Secret salaries revisited

    Secret salaries

    A while back I wrote about keeping salaries secret in the workplace and why I think it’s just a darned silly idea. It’s easily the most controversial post I’ve ever written, with 70% of the (many) commenters disagreeing vehemently. I posted a comment round-up as well.

    Now Elana Centor revisits the issue in a post called The Last Frontier: Sharing Your Salary With Co-workers. She also finds that the idea of sharing salary information is not widely accepted.

    Talk to most employee consultants and they say talking about salaries with co-workers is a bad idea.

    My online search found just one consultant who agrees with me – Alexander Kjerulf who consults on how to be happy at work.

    She cites some interesting articles. One horrible, horrible article on USAToday keeps telling us to never discuss our salaries – without ever once mentioning why. Except of course that it’s more convenient for the boss if you don’t.

    It also blithely tells the story of an employee who was nearly fired for talking salary – even though US law explicitly says that “employers cannot interfere with, restrain or coerce employees in exercising their rights to discuss their wages, hours, and other terms and conditions of employment for their mutual aid or protection.”

    More relevant is a CNN article that tells us to proceed with caution, but at least acknowledges that sharing salary information can be useful.

    More tellingly, one commenter tells the story of finding a fax with all her co-workers salaries in it. The result: She is frustrated because she feels she is paid too little relative to her co-workers – but she can’t complain because she can’t admit to knowing their salaries.

    I’m still convinced that keeping salaries secret is bad for both employees and businesses. It may seem easier and more convenient here and now, but the net result is an increased focus on compensation.

    The question is of course how we break the taboo – it seems that in some workplaces talking about how much money you make is akin to discussing your sexual preferences. Any ideas?


  • Do you REALLY need a degree to be happy?

    Cap and diplomaLeandro from Brazil wrote in with a classic and crucial question: Do you need a college degree to be successful? Leandro is 21 and currently studies computer engineering and does NOT like it. His parents think he absolutely needs the degree – he doesn’t :o)

    My take: No. You don’t need a college degree to be happy and successful.

    I myself have a university degree (a masters in computer science) – but I chose my studies 100% based on my interests at the time. I was a major geek and my studies let me do some pretty cool stuff.

    And while I would not have gotten my first “real” job without my degree, I would of course have gotten another job – even without the degree. And anyway, my first job sucked :o)

    Success

    I believe success comes from doing something that:

    1. You’re good at
    2. You like doing
    3. Someone is willing to pay you for

    You need all three. Does this such an area currently exist for you? Be realistic!

    If such an area does not currently exist, you can make one for yourself – and one way to do this is to study.

    But considering how many possibilities are out there, I refuse to believe that this can only be achieved by suffering through 4-5 years of boring, unpleasant studying, just so you can wave a piece of paper around after you graduate.

    Also, ask yourself this: If you truly do not enjoy your studies – how much can you possibly enjoy working in the same field later?

    For a long time we’ve been telling people that “Sure, studying is not much fun, but you just have to get through 4-5 years of it and then everything is gravy.” First of all, this rarely turns out to be true, and secondly, this tends to make higher education an exercise in conformity – not learning. Those who complete their studies are not necessarily the best and the brightest, but those most willing to knuckle under and do as they’re told.

    If I were in Leandro’s shoes, I would either:

    1. Find a way to make my studies fun. Study with some fun people, go for some fun classes, work on my strategies and the way I spend time.
    2. If that’s not possible, I’d witch to some kind of studies I really liked and found interesting or to a different school, where they didn’t make things as boring.
    3. Or alternatively get a job or start my own company and do something really cool

    What’s your take on this? Did you enjoy studying? How did you choose your studies? Are you happy and successful with or without a degree?


  • Happiness is subversive

    Reboot

    I’ve previously mentioned the reboot conference, how good it is and that you should definitely get yourself some tickets to reboot9, which is happening later this week right here in Copenhagen. If you didn’t listen and get yourself a ticket, it’s now too late – the event has sold out.

    I’ll be speaking again this year on a theme that is tremendously important to me: Happiness. Not happiness at work, mind you, but happiness in general.

    Specifically, I’ll be talking about the fact that:

    1. Happiness is really, really important. And really, really easy.
    2. We don’t seem to know much about what makes us happy. Or we don’t act much on that knowledge, anyway.
    3. Happiness is subversive.

    I’m on Thursday at 15:00-15:40. Read more about my presentation here.

    Nicole Simon did a pre-reboot interview with me again this year – and we had another great, fun conversation. Visit her blog or click play below to hear the whole thing.


  • Open presentation in Stockholm on June 1st

    SwedenI’m giving a presentation about happiness at work in Stockholm on Friday June 1st at 9AM and I would LOVE to see you there!

    I’m doing this in cooperation with 4good, who are representing me in Sweden. Here’s a snippet from their invitation:

    Inhouse och 4good vill härmed bjuda in dig till ett exklusivt miniseminarie med Chief Happiness Officer Alexander Kjerulf, för första gången i Sverige!

    Alexander är en av världens främsta inspiratörer på temat arbetsglädje och work-life balance, han är en nytänkande entreprenör och författare till boken ???Happy Hour is 9 to 5 – How to love your job, love your life and kick butt at work???. Han driver också inspirationssiten och bloggen www.postivesharing.com med över 100.000 besökare varje månad.

    Vi är glada över att ha Alexander Kjerulf här på ett unikt Sverigebesök! Kom och lyssna till hans mycket intressanta åsikter och insikter om varför arbetsglädje är så viktigt för att driva framgångsrika företag. Varmt välkommen till en av vårens absoluta höjdpunkter på 4good! (read more).

    It will be held at the Scandic Continental on Klara Vattugränd 4. If you’re in Stockholm on Friday and would like to attend, send me an email, and I’ll make sure to put you on the guest list.


  • Passion at work

    Pursue the passion at workI just got an email from Brett Farmiloe, the founder of Pursue the Passion, who are up to something tremendously cool.

    This Summer, Brett and two recent college grads are doing a “14,000 mile, 3 month journey around the US to interview 200 people about the passion that propels them in their profession”.

    I really look forward to seeing what comes out of this! You can see their travel schedule, read the blog and if you know anyone who’s passionate about work (or if you yourself are) you should definitely tell Brett about it.

    I value passion very highly at work myself. Here’s how it works for me:

    1. I could never work on something I’m not passionate about. If a task or a project leaves me cold, no amount of money, coercion or feeling of duty can make me work on it.
    2. What’s more, I don’t work well with people who are not passionate. If a person is not enthusiastic and passionate about a project, I find it hard to trust them, because I don’t know what makes them tick.
    3. In my experience, passionate people get more work done. Waaaaaay more. It’s not even close.
    4. Passionate people are much more fun to work with. Compared to people who treat work as “just a job”, passionate people are a blast!

    What about you? Are you passionate about your work? Are the people you work with? Does passion matter to you? Write a comment, I’d really like to know :o)



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