• Breaking news: I’m speaking at TEDx Copenhagen. Woohooo :o)

    I’ve had to sit on this news for a while, but now I’m finally free to announce that I am one of the speakers at TEDx Copenhagen on November 30.

    The theme of the event is “The good life”. As you know, Denmark is often called the happiest country on the planet. I’ll be examining if this is really true, what it takes to achieve the good life and look more at the good life at work. I also have a bone to pick with all the politicians and economists who want us to work more hours in the name of GDP growth. If you think that working longer is really the best path to success and growth, I’ll be showing you exactly why you’re wrong!

    Sign up here – and you’d better do it fast. I hear the tickets are selling like hotcakes.


  • Friday Spoing

    It’s almost weekend and thus time for another Friday Spoing. Don’t worry – this one has a happy ending:

    Have a very happy weekend :o)


  • Is your workplace a democracy or a dictatorship?

    “We all want to live in a democratic country. None of us would accept living under totalitarian rule. So why do we accept that many workplaces are run like dictatorships?”

    Traci Fenton is the founder and CEO of WorldBlu, an organization that helps workplaces around the world become more democratic and less based on “command and control”.

    WorldBlu also publishes an annual list of the world’s most democratic workplaces. The 2010 list was announced in Las Vegas in June and we were there for the event, where some of the companies that made the list presented. It was incredibly inspiring to hear from companies like Davita and Zappos how they practice democracy.

    From our standpoint it’s also interesting to see that democratic workplaces are also invariably happy workplaces. We are much happier at work when we feel that we are part of creating the future of the company, rather than just footsoldiers who must always follow orders.

    Traci gave a great talk at our annual conference on happiness at work in Copenhagen in 2009. Click on the video above to watch Traci’s entire talk (17 minutes). In it she:

    • Shows why democratic companies are happier and more successful
    • Gives some great examples of democratic workplaces around the world
    • Outlines the 10 principles of organizational democracy

    If you’d like to put your organization on the path to democracy, you can become a member – and eventually even apply to be on the WorldBlu list.

    Your take

    Is your workplace a democracy or a dictatorship? Are you in on vital information and important decisions or are you kept in the dark? Do you even want democracy in the workplace, or is it easier when a few people make all of the decisions? Please write a comment, I’d love to know your take.


  • Join the happiness at work telesummit

    If you really want to dive into the topic of happiness at work you should absolutely sign up for the Happiness at Work Summit which starts today October 4th and runs for 4 days. You’ll get tips and ideas from some really smart people including Srikumar Rao and myself.

    I had a great 1-hour talk with Uta Langley, and when you sign up for the summit, you will get my take on why happiness at work is so important and how exactly you can become happier at work.

    And it’s free!! So sign up right here.


  • Friday Spoing

    Valerie is a rest room attendant. And she certainly seems happy at work:

    That is just awesome! Have a happy weekend :o)


  • Monday tip

    This week’s Monday Tip is the most fun, playful collection of life advice I have ever seen. Don’t take my word for it – just watch it!

    The words are from a graduation speech given by Mary Schmich. The voice is Baz Luhrmann’s, the Australian movie director who did Moulin Rouge, Strictly Ballroom and many others.

    … and who says you can’t post a Monday Tip on a Wednesday :o)

    The Chief Happiness Officer’s Monday tips are simple, easy, fun things you can do to make yourself and others happy at work and get the work-week off to a great start. Something everyone can do in five minutes, tops. When you try it, write a comment here to tell me how it went.

    Previous Monday tips.


  • What is the opposite of work

    I recently asked a seemingly simple question here on the blog:

    What is the opposite of work?

    A week later there were 30 creative, insightful comments on that simple question and there are some interesting trends you can notice in them.

    But first this: I had an ulterior motive for asking this question, and it was of course to get at a usable definition of work, as Martin Mouritzen guessed in the 2nd comment:

    I guess that really depends on how you describe “work”. I love my work, so for me work is not work at all, and I can find myself working in the evening for relaxation.
    But: The work I do for relaxation is always something which does not have a deadline, which does not have any set expectations and something which can challenge me.

    So I guess for me the opposite of work is simply “stuff I do to relax”.

    Many other comments echoed this. Rowan Manahan wrote:

    My evolving definition of work is “Stuff you HAVE to do, whether you want to or not, because you are not independently wealthy.”

    By that definition, anyone who LOVES their job doesn’t work. It may take a lot of their time and make demands on their energy and availability for other things, but if they wholeheartedly LOVE it, it isn’t work per se.

    Robbert took a dictionary approach:

    Wordnet defines work as “exert oneself by doing mental or physical work for a purpose or out of necessity”.

    As such the opposite of work can be several things:
    – Excerting yourself for no purpose or necesity (Sport or hobbies)
    – Not exerting yourself for a purpose (Sleep or recovery from illness)
    – Not exerting yourself for no purpose (Lazing about, procrastination)

    Present in these definitions is that work is what you HAVE to do, which fits in well with the traditional, industrial-age-definition of work. It’s what I do for pay and i do it because I need money to survive.

    The problem with this definition is of course that many of us love our jobs and would do what we do even if we didn’t have to.

    Ioana took another approach:

    I prefer the sociological distinction myself: the opposite of work is leisure. Rest would be the opposite of activity and I don’t think the concept of work can be reduced to activity. I believe the productive aspect is the essential one. Work is productive activity. It usually involves some sort of compulsion, but it might be more appropriate to speak of necessity. In a paid job there is compulsion indeed, but not for other types of work, such as housekeeping (for one’s house) and child rearing, which are done simply because they’re necessary.

    This approach emphasizes production – work is that which produces results.

    Chris Stapper echoed this:

    I want to believe that work is something like ‘creating value’.

    And so did Ken Ferry:

    Work is what I do to accomplish something.

    There were also some silly approaches, like this:

    The opposite of ‘work’ is ‘krow’.

    Thanks, Luc.

    And though Noel Coward did not actually comment on the original post, I still thought of this quote of his:

    Work is much more fun than fun.

    Rather than try to come up with the most correct definition of work, ie. one that would make sense in an economical, sociological and psychological perspective, I’d rather try to find a definition of work or rather a view of work, that promotes happiness at work in most normal kinds of work.

    This immediately eliminates some definitions:

    • If work is simply that you do because you have to, then happiness at work is almost impossible by definition.
    • If work is only what you do for money, it eliminates all volunteer work.
    • If work is only what you do for a purpose, then all aspects of your job that are not productive are no longer work.

    I’m not claiming to have the answer yet, but as I see it here are some elements of a definition if work that is conducive to happiness:

      1. Work is something you choose to do. You may not have a choice of whether or not to work but you have choice in what work you do.
      2. Work is something you’re valued for. Either someone pays you for your work or someone takes the time and resources to organize your work.
      3. Work is an activity where you make a positive difference for someone else.

        Does that make sense at all?


      • Monday Tip: Stealth Disco

        It’s Monday and time for yet another Monday Tip.

        I’ve got two words for ya: Stealth Disco.

        According to Wikipedia, Stealth Disco is:

        The act of being videotaped dancing or rocking out behind or near someone who is doing something serious and does not notice.

        Now go Disco. Stealthily.

        Update – I’ll go first:

        This is me Stealth Discoing my associate Jon. Now it’s your turn. Feel free to document it in the comments :o)

        The Chief Happiness Officer’s Monday tips are simple, easy, fun things you can do to make yourself and others happy at work and get the work-week off to a great start. Something everyone can do in five minutes, tops. When you try it, write a comment here to tell me how it went.

        Previous Monday tips.


      • Friday Spoing

        This Friday we have a slo-mo Spoing for ya:

        I have no idea why this is so funny, but it is :o)

        Have a very happy weekend!


      • The happiness empire expands

        Yesterday we expanded our company headcount by over 30% when our newest associate Arlette Bentzen joined us.

        And of course there were flowers:

        Arlette (on the right) has a background int the travel industry and in fitness. She will be doing workshops and speeches and she will also be our event manager and run our conferences and other events. Arlette is a wonderful person who has a lot of energy (pretty much a requirement to work for us) and we’re very excited about her :o)

        And here’s the whole team:



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