• Links

    Fight ClubStephen Shapiro (who rocked Copenhagen last week with his presentation on Goal-Free Living) has posted a mind-map that outlines his book, contributed by an Australian reader. Check it out – it’s an excellent overview of the thinking behind Goal-Free Living.

    Rich DiGirolamo is making June 15 Recess At Work Day. Excellent!

    Bernie deKoven could probably suggest some great activities for Recess At Work Day. The man knows fun! How about a game of Massivel Multiplayer Thumbwrestling?

    I’m a huge fan of Fight Club (the book and the movie), but untill now I had no idea that the book’s main characters are really Calvin and Hobbes 25 years later.


  • Happy at work at Southwest Airlines

    Southwest AirlinesThe NY Times has an article about 17 original Southwest Airlines who signed on at the very beginning in 1972 and still work there. Most of these people are now millionaires thanks to the company’s profit-sharing plan, but still work as mechanics, flight attendants or at the ticket counter.

    Why do they stay on? Many people at other companies dream only of the day they can retire from work, so what is it about Southwest that makes their employees stay on far beyond that point? Here are some of the things they say in the article:

    “Passengers — you get a feel how far you can go with them,” she said. “We had businessmen in suits pass out peanuts and pick up trash. We’d see how many people we could lock up inside the lavatory. They loved it. We had them on top of each other. Seven or eight? Quite a few. And those lavatories are pretty small.”

    Though a union shop, Southwest is less bound by work rules than most other airlines. “If you saw something that needed to be done, and you thought you could do it, you did,” Mr. Wilson said.

    Mr. Marcell, 64, lost a kidney to cancer and more recently the disease showed up in a lung. He is on medicine to control its spread. “I’m going to work until I can’t work anymore,” he said. “I just like to work.”

    And Ms. Force, the one-time Esquire cover model, who is 61 and single, just completed chemotherapy for breast cancer and, after six months off, returned to work this month. She does not need the paycheck, with more than 100,000 shares of Southwest stock, valued at about $1.6 million.

    “I love to work,” she said. “Southwest is kind of my family and my husband.”

    How would you like your employees to say things like that about your company? Would you enjoy working at a place where this is a common attitude?

    Southwest’s model for happiness at work is worth learning from, and it’s decribed magnificently in the classic business book Nuts! by Jackie and Kevin Freiberg. Read it!


  • Quote

    Finding your calling is a wonderful thing, but how do you do that? Will you know your calling when you see it?

    Here’s my definition: You know you’re doing the right work when you would rather do it and fail, than not do it.

    – Alexander Kjerulf


  • Let’s go vampire slaying

    Vampire ideas

    Cold, undead relics from a past age haunt the corporate world, spreading fear and carnage wherever they go. These monsters can look good, seductive even, but if you let them, they’ll suck the life force out of you and leave you dead. Or worse: One of them.

    I call them vampire ideas and all they deserve is a stake through the heart. Vampire ideas can be found in stock management philosophy, tired old leadership theories or business advice from an earlier era. Wherever they come from, they’re bad for you and they’re bad for business.

    Here’s a table comparing vampire ideas to actual vampires:

    Actual vampires Vampire ideas
    Can look really good Can look really good
    …but are actually disgusting and evil …but are actually disgusting and evil
    Are undead Should’ve been dead a long time ago
    Suck people’s blood Suck a company’s energy and creativity
    Are deterred by garlick and crosses Are deterred by good leadership
    Can’t enter your house without an invitation Can’t enter your business without an invitation
    Are really hard to kill Are really hard to kill
    Wither and burn in the light of day Wither and burn in the light of logical thinking
    Cast no shadow or mirror image That’s kinda where the analogy breaks down

    So what are some commonly seen vampire ideas? Here are a few examples.

    Fire the bottom 10% of your employees every year

    This is one of the most inhumane, cynical and just plain stupid ideas I’ve ever heard about. Who on earth still believes that this is a good way to do business and to get the best performance from employees. This idea keeps employees constantly afraid, but if that’s what you want, go for it. The exact opposite view is described here and trust me, it works much better.

    If you can’t measure it, you can’t manage it

    Vampire ideaConsidering how many things in a business are unmeasured, not to say unmeasurable, this is one more bad idea in need of a final resting place. I’ve written about it previously here. This idea of management-by-spreadsheet stifles new ideas and reduces a leaders focus to things that can be expressed in numbers.

    Long work hours are good for business

    No. They’re not. In fact, laziness will take you much further.

    Nice guys finish last

    That’s not true either. In a networked world it’s more important to be generous and likeable than to be ruthless and efficient.

    Wooden stakeI’m sure there’s more. What vampire ideas do you know, that we should get rid of once and for all?

    Let’s break out the wooden stakes and go vampire slaying together!


  • Conversations / samtalerne – May 31

    The Cluetrain Manifesto reminds us that:

    • Markets are conversations.
    • The Internet is enabling conversations among human beings that were simply not possible in the era of mass media.
    • Companies that don’t realize their markets are now networked person-to-person, getting smarter as a result and deeply joined in conversation are missing their best opportunity.

    Since the manifesto was published in 1999, we have seen the rise of weblogs, discussion groups, wiki sites, chat rooms, podcasts and social networking sites, just to mention a few technologies currently enabling conversations.

    But how are businesses harnessing conversations?

    As part of the Reboot conference, there will be an excellent 1-day event in Copenhagen on May 31st called Samtalerne (the conversations). I will most definitely be there, and so will

    • Doc searls (co-author of the Cluetrain manifesto)
    • Robert Scoble who blogs for Microsoft
    • Euan Semple who introduced net conversations to the BBC
    • Anette Hartvig, CEO of Aarstiderne who renamed their customer service department “Conversations”

    as well as many other very interesting people. Should make for some great… conversations :o)


  • Goal-free in Copenhagen

    Yesterday Stephen Shapiro and I toured Copenhagen by land and by water. Steve fell in love with the city, especially Christiania, the canals and smorrebrod from Ida Davidsen.

    In the afternoon it was time for Steve to present Goal-Free Living to the Danes, and the presentation was a smash hit.

    There are lots of pictures from the presentation here.


  • Enthusiasm

    BatteryScott H. Young has a great post on enthusiasm:

    Enthusiasm is like any other skill. If it is continually practiced and exercised, it gets better. If it is not, then it will atrophy. Enthusiasm rarely comes naturally and it must be the result of conscious effort. Practicing the ability to use enthusiasm can keep you excited and driven even in horrible circumstances.

    Go read it, it’s a great piece.

    My ability to be enthusiastic is without a doubt my greatest skill. When some new idea really grabs me, my enthusiasm

    • Makes me do something about it
    • Helps me get others involved by infecting them with enhusiasm
    • Gives me the energy to get through the difficult parts and the problems
    • Lets me believe I can do it – or at least that it will be fun trying

    Enthusiasm also gives me a certain half-blind optimism. I see mostly the opportunities and internally minimize problems and risks. Which is a great thing when you’re trying to do something big.

    Looking back, all of the greatest things I have achieved look nearly impossible on paper. If I hadn’t had my enhusiasm to slightly blind me to the challenges involved, I would probably never have tried it. And I certainly wouldn’t have succeeded.

    So I say be enthusiastic – and let it show!


  • Quote

    I’m away all day at a conference about children’s right to play – that ought to be fun :o)

    Meanwhile, please enjoy this quote by Dave Winer on why we can kiss the media goodbye:

    Why do you think they call it media?

    They’re middlemen.

    In the future we won’t need middlemen.

    Why?

    Because the Internet disintermediates.

    Which is a fancy word for “gets rid of the middlemen.”

    Or, if you prefer, “gets rid of the media.”

    – Dave Winer

    Via The Obvious.


  • Hiring in your own image

    Danish business magazine Berlingske Nyheds Magasin did an article recently picking their management dream team, naming executives from various organizations to the positions of CEO, CTO, CFO, chairman of the board, etc…

    This is their dream team:

    Dream team

    What is this, the Borgs? You must assimilate. Resistance is futile. You must become a man aged 35-50 and wear a dark suit and a tie.

    Why is no one wearing jeans and a T-shirt? Why are there no men with long hair or just a beard? Where are the ethnic minorities? Why only one woman? Where are the older people? Where are the people under 35?

    I was wondering why this search for a dream team resulted in an ethnically homogeneous group of identically dressed, identically looking people of the same age, and I had to laugh when I saw this picture of the people who chose the dream team:

    Dream team pickers

    If ever there was proof of the temptation to hire in your own image, this is it right here. A group of corporate-looking men (and one woman) aged 35-50 choose a management dream team of corporate-looking men (and one woman) aged 35-50.

    My tip: When you hire people, be it employees or leaders, make sure to hire people who are not like you. After all, your company already has a you. People who are not like you are bound to make you a little uncomfortable and that’s fine. That just means that you’re not totally sure of what makes them tick. The’yre consequently more likely to surprise you and to contribute something new to the organization.


  • La-la-la-la – we’re not listening – la-la-la-la

    A Danish study published today shows that

    1. 56% of respondents believe that involving the organization is the second-most important factor for successful strategic development
    2. Only 4% of businesses involve all employees in strategic development

    Which made me think of this sign found in a barracks of the Israeli army:

    Privates will refrain from giving advice to officers.

    – From Leo Rosten’s Giant Book of Laughter

    Via Arun’s musings.



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