• High five!

    Have you high-fived a co-worker today?

    Praise and recognition are vital. Unfortunately many people feel unappreciated at work. According to a survey we did last year, the 2nd biggest factor that makes Danes unhappy at work is a lack of appreciation.

    And we can all do our part to create a culture of praise in our workplaces. Here’s some inspiration to get you started.

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  • My most exciting gig in 2012

    I speak at a ton of companies and conferences all over the world, but this is one of the most exciting I have coming up in 2012.

    It’s put on by our good friends at Nixon McInnes and some of the themes are:

    • Organisational design & structure – Is top-down, command and control fit for the 21st century?
    • 21st century leadership – What kind of leaders do the challenges of our time demand, and what is leadership today?
    • Technology disruption – What technology themes are imminent and likely to disrupt business as usual?
    • The future of work – What do people want from work and what can they expect from progressive businesses?

    Check out the conference web site here and get your tickets today!


  • Fun at work in India

    I’m featured in the June 2012 edition of The Human Factor Magazine in India. What’s even cooler is that the main theme of that issue is fun at work.

    This just reinforces what I’ve said for a long time, namely that the idea of happiness at work is spreading all around the world.

    In fact, I was just booked to speak at the CFA Institute’s Fifth Annual European Investment Conference in Prague in October and that will mark the 25th country I’ve spoken in.

    I honestly believe that happiness at work is inevitable and the future belongs to the happy :o)


  • Failure is an option. It has to be.

    Planetary Resources is a new company whose mission is to mine asteroid and comets. No, really. It may sound like science fiction and they won’t be bringing valuable materials back to Earth tomorrow, but they’re apparently serious about it and have the backing of people like Ross Perot, Jr., Larry Page, Peter Diamondis and many others.

    As a huge space buff this really speaks to me and here’s one of my favorite things about the venture, from the company’s chief scientist, Chris Lewicki:

    One important thing to understand about our company, we’re not a government program. For NASA and other civilian agencies, failure is not an option. But for us it’s the exact opposite: failure is an option. It has to be, just think of where we might be as a species or a nation if we only took on projects where success was a virtual certainty.

    Failure is an option. It has to be. That’s a great mission statement right there.

    Workplaces that shun mistakes make their employees unhappy. The reason why is simple: On the one hand they want their people to be innovative, creative and productive – on the other hand mistakes are punished severely. How the heck are employees supposed to unite those two demands?

    As the Mythbusters say: “Failure is always an option.” And as we say: You should celebrate mistakes at work, not hide them.


  • Friday Woohoo

    Don’t tell me you don’t secretly long to stick your head out the window when you’re in a car:

    Have a happy weekend :o)


  • One more brave quitter

    Here’s another fantastic comment from Karen who quit a horrible job:

    I spent nearly a decade working as a technical and customer support specialist in an inbound contact centre. I was the person who answered the phone from customers angry over their bill or because their internet, tv or cell phone was not working. People tend to forget their manners when talking to a person over phone who works in a subservient position to them. The company was all about squeezing every last cent out of their workers, and most of management seemed to almost gleefully accept their role as pseudo-slavers. It was probably the most soul-killing job I ever did.

    After 5 years of it, both my doctor and I hated it. I told myself many of these excuses, and finally owned up to the fact that without a better resume, I wasn’t confident I could do much better for pay, and when the pay is already just above minimum wage, that’s a really hard one to swallow. I also had enough friends in other contact centres to know I was just jumping fires to switch companies, and at least I liked a group of the people I worked with – some friendships I still maintain today. I made a concious decision that I was actively choosing to stay there until I found a better career, instead of meekly and passively thinking I was doomed to remain there.

    And so I started working on myself. What else I would want to do, what I was looking for. I decided money was not the leading factor, though all the other items had to be superb for me to accept a lesser wage. Working with a friend, I slowly started to identify transferrable skills, and piece together a resume, and applying to positions with other companies. While it is likely a process that would have taken most people only a few months, my confidence was in the early stages of being built up, and so it took longer for me.

    As well, where I finally decided I wanted to be was notorious to take a year or more to go through the entire selection process. I also had to factor in that due to varying shifts that kept me from having any consisent time off, I would need to use my meagre amount of vacation or sick leave for any interviews I wanted to attend, as management was not exactly open to my career growth.

    2 months prior to my 9 year anniversary with that company, I happily bounced into work with a spring in my step that was highly unusual, and caused some confused looks from others. I was so happy, I actually went in, on my vacation day – on my birthday in fact – to tender my very polite and professional resignation, which gave no room for them to try to convince me to stay in their specially-reserved section of hell. Multiple supervisors actually approached me after to ask how I got my job with my new employer, as perhaps it was a time for them to change as well.

    Oh, that was a happy day that nearly three years later, still brings a smile to my face. After some special handling by awesome managers who recognized the near PTSD-like condition that my old employer had left me in, I’ve found new confidence in myself, and I now thrive in a career that challenges me, welcomes my input, and supports both my personal and professional growth, wherever that may take me.

    The best I could offer to others is this: Identify the exuses or reasons of why you are staying where you are. Dream of better, and then figure out how to get there, because it is possible. May be a rocky road, but the smooth ones really do lose their appeal. Decide that your departure from this company is a definite fact, not a far off wish. If for whatever reason, you can’t immediately just quit right now, then decide what your departure entails, and own that decision. Accept it. Make the conscious decision that you are actively choosing to stay where you are for the short term. Draw lines about what you will accept in your continued employment, and give yourself the all-clear that “if x happens, I quit”, and hold that life line firm. Find out what the rules the employer, not necessarily your boss, has about conflict resolution, and follow it. At that point, what is the worst that can happen? You lose a job you have decided you will be leaving. And in that good-bye process, however long it takes, milk it for all it’s worth; every last transferrable skill, training, knowledge and experience. There’s a certain satisfaction to knowing they are just making you that much more valuable to your next employer.

    Kudos! It’s great to see Karen’s courage and practical approach to finding better work, rather than accepting jobs that suck!


  • Quitting instantly improved the quality of my life

    Quit!

    This great comment came in yesterday from Stephan De Villiers:

    I quit my job today! Don’t know what I am going to for sure, I just know that by quitting I instantly improved the quality of my life.

    I honestly think that fear of quitting a bad job is one of the main sources of unhappiness at work. Hating your job is bad enough but if you also feel that there is no way out, no matter how badly they treat you, then things become much, much worse. Conversely, knowing that you are free to quit and find something else makes a bad job situation easier to bare. But only if you’re willing to exercise that freedom and actually leave that job. Which way to few people do.

    Kudos to Stephan for doing it!

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  • The 10 most awesome things from Valve’s employee handbook

    I recently had a chance to read the employee handbook from video game company Valve and it’s the single most inspiring such document I have ever seen.

    I play some video games myself (the Bioshock and Dead Space franchises are my favorites), but if you don’t partake you may never have heard of Valve so here’s the skinny from Wikipedia:

    Valve Corporation is an American video game development and digital distribution company based in Bellevue, Washington, United States. Founded in 1996 by former Microsoft employees Gabe Newell and Mike Harrington, Valve became famous from its critically acclaimed Half-Life series. It is also well known for its social-distribution network Steam; and for developing the Source engine.

    Valve is privately owned so few financial figures are known but they have 300 employees and Forbes estimates the company’s worth at $3 billion.

    Their employee handbook was recently released on the web and it explains how they’ve become so successful. Here are the top 10 most awesome things from the document.

    1: Valve has no hierarchy

    Hierarchy is great for maintaining predictability and repeatability. It simplifies planning and makes it easier to control a large group of people from the top down, which is why military organizations rely on it so heavily.

    But when you’re an entertainment company that’s spent the last decade going out of its way to recruit the most intelligent, innovative, talented people on Earth, telling them to sit at a desk and do what they’re told obliterates 99 percent of their value.

    That’s why Valve is flat. It’s our shorthand way of saying that we don’t have any management, and nobody “reports to” anybody else. We do have a founder/president, but even he isn’t your manager.

    How cool is that?

    2: Pick your projects

    We’ve heard that other companies have people allocate a percentage of their time to self-directed projects. At Valve, that percentage is 100.

    Heh :o) Screw Google and their “20% time to work on your own projects.” Valve turned that dial to 11!

    3: Don’t forget the long term

    Because we all are responsible for prioritizing our own work, and because we are conscientious and anxious to be valuable, as individuals we tend to gravitate toward projects that have a high, measurable, and predictable return for the company.

    This sounds like a good thing, and it often is, but it has some downsides that are worth keeping in mind. Specifically, if we’re not careful, these traits can cause us to race back and forth between short-term opportunities and threats, being responsive rather than proactive.

    So our lack of a traditional structure comes with an important responsibility. It’s up to all of us to spend effort focusing on what we think the long-term goals of the company should be.

    In many, many workplaces where employees are unhappy and frustrated because their workdays are entirely taken up with putting out one fire and then the next, leaving no time for long-term planning of any kind. Valve try not to fall into that trap.

    4: Don’t stress over the things you don’t do

    It’s natural in this kind of environment to constantly feel like you’re failing because for every one task you decide to work on, there will be dozens that aren’t getting your attention. Trust us, this is normal. Nobody expects you to devote time to every opportunity that comes your way. Instead, we want you to learn how to choose the most important work to do.

    At most workplaces there is a huge and unrelenting focus on the things employees haven’t done. Almost every meeting, email and phone call are intended to remind people of the next deadline and how far away they are from reaching it. Valve try to take the pressure of employees so they don’t stress over the things they don’t do.

    5: We test ourselves

    …rather than simply trusting each other to just be smart, we also constantly test our own decisions

    Yes. Don’t believe your own hype. Test your decisions and adjust as needed.

    6: Overwork is bad

    While people occasionally choose to push themselves to work some extra hours at times when something big is going out the door, for the most part working overtime for extended periods indicates a fundamental failure in planning or communication.

    This is a brilliant slap in the face to all members of The Cult of Overwork, ie. everyone who believes that the key to succes is simply to work more hours.

    7: Enjoy yourself

    Sometimes things around the office can seem a little too good to be true. If you find yourself walking down the hall one morning with a bowl of fresh fruit and Stumptown-roasted espresso, dropping off your laundry to be washed, and heading into one of the massage rooms, don’t freak out. All these things are here for you to actually use.

    And don’t worry that somebody’s going to judge you for taking advantage of it—relax! And if you stop on the way back from your massage to play darts or work out in the Valve gym or whatever, it’s not a sign that this place is going to come crumbling down like some 1999-era dot-com startup.

    If we ever institute caviar-catered lunches, though, then maybe something’s wrong. Definitely panic if there’s caviar.

    In short, you should feel good during your work day.

    8: You’re free to screw up

    Nobody has ever been fired at Valve for making a mistake.

    Providing the freedom to fail is an important trait of the company — we couldn’t expect so much of individuals if we also penalized people for errors.

    Yes! I cannot stress enough, how important it is to let employees make mistakes.

    In fact, we should celebrate mistakes at work.

    9: It’s not about growth

    We do not have a growth goal. We intend to continue hiring the best people as fast as we can, and to continue scaling up our business as fast as we can, given our existing staff. Fortunately, we don’t have to make growth decisions based on any external pressures — only our own business goals. And we’re always free to temper those goals with the long-term vision for our success as a company. Ultimately, we win by keeping the hiring bar very high.

    Yes! Way too many businesses are slaves to growth goals that are arbitrary, unrealistic and ultimately meaningless.

    As Ricardo Semler put it:
    There is no correlation between growth and ultimate success. For a while growth seems very glamorous, but the sustainability of growth is so delicate that many of the mid-sized companies which just stayed where they were doing the same thing are much better off today than the ones that went crazy and came back to nothing. There are too many automobile plants, too many airplanes. Who is viable in the airline business?

    10: Hiring

    Hiring well is the most important thing in the universe. Nothing else comes close. It’s more important than breathing.

    So when you’re working on hiring … everything else you could be doing is stupid and should be ignored!

    Again, this is brilliant. Nothing undermines a strong positive company culture faster than hiring people who don’t fit in.

    In short, this is a fantastic document and one of the coolest things about it is that it’s maintained by the Valve employees themselves, who are free to edit it on their intranet.

    You can find the whole Valve Employee Handbook here – read it, read it, read it :)

    Your take

    What do you think of these 10 points? How does this document compare to your workplace’s employee handbook? Is there anything in your employee handbook that inspires you?


  • Quote

    You know a corporate values program is doomed to fail when they start printing mouse mats with the values.
    – Henrik Burkal, CEO of REMA1000 Denmark

    Possibly the best quote from our conference two weeks ago :o)

    REMA1000 is a Norwegian chain of grocery stores and Henrik is the CEO of the Danish division. REMA1000’s vision is to be the most values-driven organization in Scandinavia. Consequently they have strong opinions on how or how NOT to introduce and strengthen corporate values.


  • Take pride in your work

    Spotted in front of a café in Copenhagen:

    Never be afraid to show that you’re proud of your product. Especially if you’re f*cking proud!

    Update: Jut to avoid any potential religious confusion, I should probably add that “god” means “good” in Danish :o)



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