• Christmas links

    I’m taking a short blogging break over Christmas and will be back at my browser on Wednesday the 28th. LinksIf you’re looking for some great reading about happiness at work over the holidays, here are some excellent blogposts.

    Bob Sutton has evidence that smiling makes you happy and likable as Gretchen Rubin of The Happiness Project claimed. It’s one of those “of course it’s true, but it’s still really nice to have studies backing it up” deals.

    David Maister tells the story of a truly courageous leader, “Jay Bertram, president of the TBWA office in Toronto, who asked his people to evaluate him and offered to resign if he did not improve how well he performed his role as their leader.”

    The Slacker Manager tells us how to write holiday cards to staff. “My ink-stained fingers are evidence of the labor of the last four hours. Only fifteen cards to show for it, but each is different and personal (no “Good job, Bob??? here).” It’s too late for this Christmas (unless you’re a really last-minute kind of person), but there are some great tips there.

    The Brazen Careerist thinks financial freedom is outdated and that we should go with optimism instead. “HELLO???? Can everyone standing in line to buy a Lear Jet please get a reality check? You do not need a plane to be happy, you need a plane to go visit the people who make you happy. A jet is not an expression of financial freedom. It’s an expression of your decision to not live near the people who mean the most to you.”

    Stephen Shapiro has a great post on allowing yourself to feel the pain in your life. “In college, I made this mix tape, aptly titled “The Depression Tape.??? It had the sappiest, saddest music you could imagine, containing nearly every song performed by Bread, Joe Cocker’s “You Are So Beautiful to Me,??? and Elton John’s sadder songs. You get the point.”

    Steve Roesler at All Things Workplace interviews some weirdo who calls himself The Chief Happiness Officer. Sheeeeesh, there are some strange people out there.

    And here are some great articles about happiness at work:
    Kenny Moore Held a Funeral to mark his company’s transition to a new organization. “When it was over, the CFO said to me, “You have some set of balls. Nobody but you could have gotten away with this.” But I didn’t feel like I had been very brave. People are dying to be connected, invited, involved. They don’t like having things shoved down their throats in a formulaic way. They show energy and commitment when they can be players and influence an initiative’s outcome.”

    Why we evolved altruism 12.000 years ago. “If an individual defended the group but was killed, any genes that the individual shared with the overall group would still be passed on.”

    How economists measure happiness. “Happiness is a big question both for researchers and for policy wonks these days, so it is slightly discomfiting to reflect that people may not even know the answer to the simple question, ‘Are you happy?’”


  • 5 things you probably don’t know about me

    Jodee Bock, author of the excellent book The 100% Factor, tagged me for a game of 5 things you don’t know about me. So here are five not commonly known factoids about me:

    1: 2-3 times a week, I teach aerobics in Scandinavia’s largest fitness chain. That’s right – I get paid to exercise :o)

    2: I’m half Greek, half Danish; was born in Tunisia; lived in Spain as a small child; grew up in Denmark.

    3: I may be the only person in the world who doesn’t like chocolate. Seriously – it tastes awful to me…

    4: I’m a certified laughter instructor. I took a course in laughter exercises with the Indian doctor who invented them, which means I know how to get groups of people to laugh at absolutely nothing.

    5: I’m a voracious reader. At any given time, I’m reading 3-5 different books. I can’t go to sleep at night, without something to read.


  • The great Christmas blogger book give-away

    Alexander KjerulfI will celebrate Christmas and the new year here on the blog by celebrating the blogging community.

    I’ve been blogging for almost four years and blogging has given me energy, inspiration, new friends, feedback and help.

    The spirit of blogging is, in my opinion, generosity. Therefore, it would give me great pleasure to give away 100 pdf-copies of my new book on happiness at work to the first 100 bloggers who ask for one.

    Happy Hour is 9 to 5Here are the rules:

    1. If you’re a blogger and would like a copy of the book in pdf, sign up by leaving a comment on this post. Make sure to enter both your email and the URL of your blog in the appropriate fields. I will (of course) not save or abuse your email in any way.

    There are no further rules!

    I wish you a spectacular Christmas!

    UPDATE: I’m flabbergasted!! In less than 24 hours 100 bloggers signed up to get a copy. Thanks to each and every one. I’ll mail the book out later today.

    UPDATE UPDATE: I mailed out the books at 6PM GMT Friday. If you signed up and the book doesn’t show up in your inbox soon there may be a problem with the email address in your comment. Send me a mail and I’ll re-send it to you.


  • Huh?

    This blog often gets trackbacks in languages I don’t speak but this one tickles me no end:

    Motivation

    It’s a summation/translation of this post. Woo-hoo!


  • The Economist cramps my style

    Here’s the author photo I had taken for my book about happiness at work:

    Alexander Kjerulf

    It was taken by Rune Heickendorf who takes some amazingly great pictures.

    And now my friend Lars alerts me to the cover of the new issue of The Economist:

    The Economist on happiness

    How much do you think I should sue them for?

    Seriously: It’s great to see how happiness is becoming a central theme in economics. There’s a growing realization that once your basic needs are covered, more money does not make you any happier. Therefore it makes sense for societies, politicians and economists to focus more on maximizing a nation’s happiness instead of its GDP. For a great book on that, read Richard Layard’s excellent book Happines – lessons from a new science.


  • I don’t mean to brag but…

    Happy Hour is 9 to 5David Maister, one of the world’s leading authorities on the management of professional service firms, read my book and says that:

    It’s very, very good. I learned a lot. It’s incredibly well written, full of insights, and there are exercises to improve your own happiness at work. You can’t ask for more than that!

    I’ve been smiling all morning at the thought of the words “Very, very good” and “Incredibly well written”. Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay!

    Read the book free on line or buy it on paper or pdf.


  • Quote

    Work should always be fun for all colleagues. We all only have one life. A third of life is work. Without desire and fun, work becomes hell.

    – Ingvar Kamprad, founder of IKEA


  • Workbook

    WorkbookI have just uploaded a workbook containing the exercises for my brand new book Happy Hour is 9 to 5 – How to Love Your Job, Love Your Life and Kick Butt at Work.

    Download it here:

    These exercises will work fine even for people who haven’t read the book and you’re more than welcome to:

    • Email the workbook to as many people as you want.
    • Use it at work with your team, department or work group.
    • Modify the questions to fit your specific work situation.
    • Or whatever else you can think of. Knock yourself out.

    mp3’s for some of the exercises are coming very soon!

    Read the book free online here and buy it on paper or as a pdf here.


  • A question for ya: Losing a job you love

    QuestionOn my post about Liking vs. loving your job, Love Lost asks:

    I had a job that I loved, I worked hard, loved what I did, did well with the people I worked with. But then the 18 month contract ran out and I can’t go back for six months and they can’t make me a permanent employee.

    So what do you do when you lose a job you love and take a job you may hate?

    That’s a really good question. What would you do? Write a comment, I’d really like to know!


  • Why “Motivation by Pizza” Doesn’t Work

    Motivation

    My store manager implemented an embarrassing (and happily short-lived) safety incentive: Employees caught violating safety procedure were immediately given a two-foot rubber chicken on a string to wear around their necks–in front of customers. To get rid of the chicken, an employee needed to catch another employee behaving “unsafely.”

    The practice quickly descended into a game of hot potato, with employees chasing one another around the store in search of the slightest violation to rid themselves of the safety chicken.

    Source: workingamerica.com’s MyBadBoss contest.

    Many people don’t feel motivated at work, and there’s a very simple explanation for this: The motivational techniques used by most managers don’t work.

    While few companies use rubber chickens (fortunately), most of the standard motivational tools like promotions, bonuses, employee of the month awards, pep-talks and free-pizza-nights are downright harmful to the drive, energy and commitment of employees. It only leaves them feeling manipulated, cynical and demotivated.

    The result: According to one Gallup study 60-80% of workers are not engaged at work. They feel little or no loyalty, passion or motivation on the job. They’re putting in the hours, but they’re not doing a great job and they’re certainly not happy at work!

    As the illustration above shows, there are four different kinds of motivation. Only one of them works and unfortunately, many managers focus exclusively on the other three. Kinda silly, huh?

    These are the four different kinds of motivation:
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