• Eulogy

    This eulogy by John A. Byrne for his father is the most moving thing I’ve ever read on the net. An excerpt:

    He learned to be generous with himself and with his friends. My father didn’t have much, but he shared what he had with just about anyone who needed what little he had. When we closed up his house on 89 Sherman Ave. and paid his final bills two years ago, we found out that he sometimes paid the oil bills of friends and neighbors when they didn’t have the cash to pay themselves. He never spoke about these generosities, and he never expected anything in return. He was a man who knew what an honest day’s work was and delivered it without complaint or failure — ever.

    He learned to live life with optimism. Above all, my father was an optimist. He loved to laugh. He loved to please. He was rarely, if ever, critical of people. He didn’t have an unkind bone in his body. He filled his life with hope, even when there was little reason to hope.

    One of my life’s biggest ambitions, is that I may be remembered in much the same way when I’m dead (or even while I’m still here :o).


  • Zero7 live

    Last night I had the pleasure of spending an evening in the company of Zero7. There are many reasons why they’re such a great band, here’s a few of them:
    * The music. Soulful, beautiful, sometimes edgy, always great.
    * The singers. Mozez (the only guy) with his airy,light voice. Sophie with the clean, clear, perfect voice. Sia with the almost unintelligible, gravelly, but no less beautiful growl. And new danish addition Tina Dico with her amazing vocal dexterity. Each one has a distinct, excellent style, worthy of being the lead singer for some band. And zero7 has four of them. I have no idea how they do it.
    * The mood. The people on stage are having a good time, and it shows. Especially Sia Furler who was constantly giggling and doing small dances, until it came time for her to sing. Then she was 100% focused on just that.
    * The setup. Zero7 are actually just the two geeky-looking guys in the background, getting absolutely no attention during the concert. They let the singers and the other musicians take the show. This may be the only band with no ego.

    But mostly the music of course. They make wonderful, introspective, quiet ambient electronica, which it can be pretty hard to transplant to a live concert. But they did so in excellent style, taking some songs up a notch to where you can see the rock-potential in them, or even taking them down a little, to where it’s just a singer a guitar and a keyboard. Excellent!!

    You can hear some of their latest songs here. Check them out, and if you get a chance to see them live, do it!!!


  • Quote

    If you have come to help me, I don’t need your help. But if you have come because your liberation is tied to mine, come let us work together.

    Lilla Watson


  • General recording tips

    Here are some general, non-technical tips for recording a chapter of the Practice of Peace audio book. I have absolutely no experience in this, so feel free to ignore it completely :o)
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  • Technical recording tips

    For those involved in making the Practice of Peace audio book, here are some technical tips for recording your voice on your computer.
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  • Creativity day

    April 21 is international innovation and creativity day. Do something weird and wonderful today.

    Then be normal and boring for the rest of the year :o)


  • 1 Arena, 2 Arenas…

    Almost a year ago, we started Arena in Copenhagen. It’s since become an interesting workplace and meeting place for lots of small innovative businesses in IT, architecture, consulting and much more.

    A few months ago, we got a visit from 2 swedish guys looking to start something similar in Malmoe (in Sweden, very close to Denmark), and Thomas Mygdal and I gave them the grand tour of Arena and explained our thoughts and ideas.

    It must have struck a chord with them, because they started Arena Malmoe, based on the same basic concepts. Of course we’re delighted to see our ideas spread, and will help them get going any way we can.

    We had a meeting today with them and with Kent from United Spaces, which is a huge office Space in Stockholm. We decided to start a network, so that our member can use each others locations. This means, that I now have access to office facilities in Copenhagen, Malmoe, Stockholm, Oslo, London and Barcelona. and that people from those places can drop in at our Arena to work if they want to. How cool is that?

    This is an excellent example of a good idea spreading almost by itself, simply because it’s allowed to. We might also have tried to franchise and license the Arena concept, but it very likely wouldn’t go anywhere. By simply releasing the idea “into the wild”, it gets a chance to spread, and so far it seems to be spreading.

    If anybody else is looking to start a fun, creative office space, let us know. We’d be happy to help!


  • Practice of Peace audio book

    Somebody asked on the Open Space mailing list if Harrison Owens book The Practice of Peace would appear as an audio book. Harrison replied that there were no current plans, so I suggested creating an audio book together.

    I was inspired by Cory Doctorows latest books (Down and Out in the Magic Kingdom and Eastern Standard Tribe) as well as Lawrence Lessigs new book Free Culture, which have been released under the Creative Commons’ least restrictive license. This license allows people to do pretty much whatever they want with the original works, as long as it’s non-commercial. This allowed some people to self-organize and create audio versions of the books, by each volunteering to read a chapter. This is what we’re going to do with the Practice of Peace also, and I volunteered to coordinate.

    Here’s a list of chapters:
    Chapter I Peace and the Practice of Peace
    Chapter II A Piecemeal Approach to Peace
    Chapter III Scope of Work for the Peacemaker
    Chapter IV Muddling Through
    Chapter V The Pathology of Control and the Power of Griefwork
    Chapter VI The Practice of Peace
    Chapter VII Many Roads to Peace
    Chapter VIII Preparation for Peacemaking

    If you’d like to read a chapter, please add a comment to this post saying what chapter you’d like to read. If somebody’s already taken your favourite chapter you might consider another one. If all the chapters are taken add a comment anyway – maybe will work something out.

    Harrisons publisher, Human Systems Dynamics Institute, will send each person a copy of the book, and we can then record a chapter and put them together somehow.

    There’s been a huge interest in participating, which is a wonderful reflection on the generosity of the OS community. So what do we do if we have more volunteers than chapters (which I’m almost sure that we have). Any suggestions?


  • Consciousness – an illusion?

    In an article entitled The Grand Illusion: Why consciousness only exists when you look for it, Dr. Susan Blackmore looks at different models of consciousness.

    It seems that most of our current thinking on consciousness is being contradicted by modern brain research, and that a new model is needed.

    If you are not yet feeling perplexed (in which case I am not doing my job properly), consider another problem. It seems that most of what goes on in the brain is not conscious. For example, we can consciously hear a song on the car radio, while we are not necessarily conscious of all the things we do as we’re driving. This leads us to make a fundamental distinction: contrasting conscious brain processes with unconscious ones. But no one can explain what the difference really is. Is there a special place in the brain where unconscious things are made conscious? Are some brain cells endowed with an extra magic something that makes what goes on in them subjective? This doesn’t make sense. Yet most theories of consciousness assume that there must be such a difference, and then get stuck trying to explain or investigate it.

    She also mentions some studies done with change blindness. Take a look at this picture, and see if you can spot what changes every time it flashes.

    Here’s my favourite quote from the article:

    It sounds bizarre, but try to catch yourself not being conscious. More than a hundred years ago the psychologist William James likened introspective analysis to “trying to turn up the gas quickly enough to see how the darkness looks.” The modern equivalent is looking in the fridge to see whether the light is always on. However quickly you open the door, you can never catch it out. The same is true of consciousness. Whenever you ask yourself, “Am I conscious now?” you always are.But perhaps there is only something there when you ask. Maybe each time you probe, a retrospective story is concocted about what was in the stream of consciousness a moment before, together with a “self” who was apparently experiencing it. Of course there was neither a conscious self nor a stream, but it now seems as though there was.

    Perhaps a new story is concocted whenever you bother to look. When we ask ourselves about it, it would seem as though there”s a stream of consciousness going on. When we don’t bother to ask, or to look, it doesn’t, but then we don’t notice so it doesn’t matter.

    The fact that you can’t unconsciously examine consciousness made me think of this grook by Piet Hein:

    Mirrors have one limitation: You can’t
    either by hook or by crook
    use them to how you look when you aren’t
    looking to see how you look.


  • Quote

    When my daughter was about seven years old, she asked me one day what I did at work. I told her I worked at the college – that my job was to teach people how to draw.

    She stared back at me, increduolous, and said, “You mean they forget?”

    – Howard Ikemoto, quoted in Art And Fear



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